Whe your doing something such as a task,job, or project and some one offers there opinion or suggestion?

I did not ask for help or advice Then you say no thanks or I know what I am doing here or what i am looking for . And then they still cant leave you alone , and now you get upset at them and yell at them and I being to Anal about the whole thing or is there a problem there

Answer:
..In the workplace, feedback or advice are a gift. People around you can look at what you're doing and see a way to help you and say "screw him." But instead they offered help. You reacted in a defensive, hostile way. That will discourage your coworkers from helping you in the future.

You didn't have to react this way. You could have listened politely and with an open mind and simply thanked them. You could have said, "That's helpful input. I appreciate it. Thanks a lot." And then go about your business, doing things your way. You don't have to accept every suggestion or even defend your way of doing things. But you do damage to your work relationships by rebuking offers of help.
All that I have got to say is that I still love you and hope that you will soon realize that I only want it to work between us. I gave you my heart and you don't seem to want it. I can accept that, I only wish that you could see that like I can and man up .

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