Why would someone continually imply something, and then deny it when you ask them about it directly?
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Well, one possibility is that the person has issues with expressing his/her feelings on a given situation. It may be that this person was never given the freedom to express opinions, feelings, desires without being ridiculed since childhood. They may need to open up in their own time.
Also, FYI.. (if this is a woman) when a woman has an issue with something and they say they are "fine," they arent. They will IMPLY what is wrong, but often wont communicate it. When you ASK them directly, they will deny, or stifle their feelings on the matter. This can be a result of not feeling validated about how they feel. (And that we are just plain difficult sometimes)
Hope this helps.
Passive aggressive coward.
They could be nervous about telling you because they think that something negative may come of it, they could be toying with you, or you could be mistaken about their implication.
I stopped trying to figure out people a long time ago. There are too many variables, even if you think you know everything about them. If they are denying it, it might be better to not only let it go, but to also assume they aren't implying whatever it is they MAY be implying in the future. Less stress and wasted time on your part.
My opinion would be to avoid a direct confrontation. To avoid this(confrontation) is better to deal between the concerned parties, & use a third party only as a last resort, that way everybody wins.
implying doesn't mean they know anything,but they do know that it bothers you. do a little diggin an c what they really know
you have only two choices. you can either believe what they tell you, or just guess on your own
Everyone goes through life acting on a specific emotional level. Some people are just covertly hostile. This is an extemely annoying level, and they will gossip and insinuate and then say they didn't mean that at all. Really it is a level very close to fear. You should pitty them, but also be wary of them, because you don't know what they will be saying behind your back. Do not trust this person for a second!
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