Spoiled vs rich?

Why do people think that if a kid has a lot of cool stuff and a big house they are suddenly spoiled. Nobody seems to understand that spoiled people are people who do nothing for something and expect to get anything they want. However, when somebody is nice, gets good grades, doesn't ask for much, helps out around the house, and is thankful for everything has a lot of stuff they are spoiled, everyone always perjudges rich people, If you had a billion dollars and 2 kids, would you wantn to get them some cool stuff? That's the whole purpose of money, to buy stuff. The whole point of parents are to provide for their children, the more money they have the more stuff they can provide for their child. If the kid brags about everything and is always demanding stuff they are spoiled. However, why aren't people ever able to seperate spoiled from rich?

Answer:
Well, because rich people give their kids anything and everything because THEY CAN! They are rich after all. When people grow up in a rich family they usually inherit things and things are more than usually given to them. They don't have to work for what they have like working class people. Think about it.you don't see Celebrities like Paris Hilton working for her money...she makes her money work for her. Why would rich parents make their kids work? I know some people who aren't "rich" per say but are well off and make their kids work and earn their possessions. That's what makes them appreciate the little things in life. That is why you see rich people who are spoiled or who have spoiled kids and don't appreciate having a home cook meal or a pair or tennis shoes...but you see working class people earning ends meet to buy them a pair of shoes and food. Those are the people who appreciate things like that because they work for it. MOST Rich people don't work for their things...and are usually given to them without earning it or working for it...that is what makes them spoiled.

Just watch those kids on "My Super Sweet Sixteen" on MTV and you'll see what I am talking about..

Example:

Kids can't work for their things they WANT (i.e. Toys) so the only way they can earn it is by working for it by making good grades and or doing household chores or being obedient.

Spoiled Kids don't have to work and make good grades and get every toy they want and then some even if they don't earn it.

It's the same thing for teenagers and adults.if you don't work for it or earn it and it's still given to you and then some then you're considered spoiled! Plain and simple!


You said: "over 50% of rich kids are spoiled, but people think that 100% are, thats what annoys me"

I agree with you...some people do have "greedy" parents..or have smart parents that make them earn things the hard way.so yeah, you're right on that.
usually because they are jealous.
People assume that if a kid has lots of stuff then they are spoiled. It's just a generalization that people make, I wouldn't take it to heart.
why, are you rich and think you shouldnt be called spoiled cuz you're nice?
jealously cant put it any other way really and maybe also they aren't there to see what you do to deserve those things but for the most part its jealously
Perhaps because if you are privileged, and blessed with parents who are generous with you, an early lesson you would learn from them is to avoid words like; Every-one, always and never. Also, where does, "The whole point of parents are to provide for their children, in conjunction with money, come from. Do you believe that? One more point, the whole point of money is NOT to buy stuff, another very important thing money allows you to do is experience opportunities that those with less can not. People do separate the spoiled from the rich, by how they behave.
i agree, i also agree 100% what usaid at the end of your statement. im not spoiled either, i know ppl who are. yeah my parents buy me stuff, not all the time i pay for almost everything i get. anybody who argues to u about it is obviously jelous. but who cares. everyone who lives in wall and manasquan has a good amount of money. it costs alot to live here. i dont pay the bills so whatever. im thankful for what i got.

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