Submissive male sexual fantasy?

I constantly (several times a day) have a fantasy where I am forced to give sexual pleasure to a women (NOT violently!!). Eg. Giving her endless oral sex while she goes about her daily tasks (such as watching television). I never used to feel like this at all. I am still fairly young (23) but I think perhaps it is because I have had a couple encounters with ladies that has left me demoralized and jaded .
I feel should be having more self respecting or dominant feelings towards sex, especially since I am a guy. But I don't and other feelings do not turn me on hardly at all anymore. In fact, over the past months, if I woman starts acting sexually disrespectful towards me, I get very turned on. I know most women want their man to take them, not the other way around. I don't think I would be capable of having a long term relationship with most women in this condition.
What is wrong with me?

Answer:
Contrary to what you're thinking there are a lot of men who find it sexually arousing to be subservient to a woman. There is nothing wrong with it as long as it's something that you both enjoy and that no one is getting hurt. There are a lot of different ways of making love and a lot of different life styles. What you need to do is see if you can find a woman who wants what you have to give her and than there's no problem.
Believe me there are women and men who enjoy this type of life style. It shouldn't be to hard to find a woman who also enjoys it. Good luck and I hope that you have a happy life.
There is NOTHING wrong with you, and it's completely natural for a man to be turned on by a woman. It's just fine for you to have fantasies about things like this.
there is absolutly nothing wrong with you, every on gets turned on by different things.
A bit odd, by hey if that floats your boat, go for it! I'm sure there's a yin to your yang out there somewhere.
If you've had some bad relationships, it's kind of normal for you to think of yourself as someone to be used and taken advantage of. Being submissive sexually is an okay fantasy as long as you don't look for a woman that will really hurt you. You probably should focus on finding yourself a nice woman - even if you don't feel a sexual attraction at first. As you see how much she values you, you'll start to value yourself again.

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