Why do I have to be so hateful, abusive, and repulsive?
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..Sometimes people are this way because of bad things that have happened to them in their lives. They feel anger, but don't know why. So they express it inappropriately with the people around them, who weren't involved in the earlier history.
Also, usually it's hard to be self-aware of these causes. A skilled listener, like a psychologist, could help get at the reasons. Then you could work on letting that baggage go...
As a young adult, I spent a year in Viet Nam. When I returned, I had anger issues I didn't even know about. I was edgy and hostile and not the best person to be around. Eventually I worked all this out, and I'm not like that anymore.
There are many reasons for these things. Depression could be a cause. Maybe you should seek council and find out why you feel this way. Are you having PMS or PMDD? Are you a drinker that can't handle being sober? I feel sorry for you. My sister is hateful, abusive, and repulsive. I just make her feel bad when she acts out at me, and then she is better for a day or two. Sometimes a beer or two makes her happier, too. To bad you feel this way. Life is short. Learn to be loving, caring, and beautiful.
you have to find a vent for your frustrations. i find that making up answers here is better than hurting other people physically. its a victimless crime, kinda like punching somebody in the dark.
Nah - you're just having a bad day. We all have those. It'll get better.
You're suffering from low self esteem
this produces negativity which seeps out at every instance as you perceive the world in a negative way
get some support through therapy and get happy with you
That is depression.If you had this feelings for well talk to you doctor to get help.It can also be over tyred and or over stressed.Been abusive sorry no excuse stop your self before that gets out of hand.Anger management is needed there
... because you are my older sister... correct? (joke)
It's a mystery to me, though what makes a person that way. at least you know that you are all that. My sister thinks that people are the ones who are mean... although it's a fact that she makes everyone cry- including our mom> not me, though. Hell breaks loose whenever she does or says those hateful, abusive, and repulsive things in my presence. The last time she did this was two days prior to our younger sister's wedding. At the wedding we pretended everything was fine again. but I haven't spoken to her ever since we parted. (we live oceans apart) Our younger sister didn't sleep two nights prior to her wedding and completely broke down the very next day after her wedding.
May God bless you and our sis with wisdom and the ability to live in harmony with people... but stay far away from us until then... or.
You've reccognized the face of the lower self. We all have a higher self, a lower self, and most of us are using a mask self to cover up the whole works. You've spotted the lower self, this is good, don't fall into thinking now that is the real you. You don't like this behavior, so this proves there is a higher self which knows that self is false.
Try some meditation, try to silence the mind. Just slow down and monotor your impulses. Pretend to be who you want to be, and eventually it will become who you are.
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