How would you prevent yourself from falling out of love?
A lot of people break up with their significant other simply because they either don't love them anymore and/or they've fallen for someone else. But there's others who fall in love, get married, and never stop loving each other.
So how would you prevent yourself from falling out of love?
Serious answers please. :) Thanks.
Answer:
It's not something that is done, it's just love.
I met my husband when I was just 18. He was 26. We met online back in 1993 when meeting your true love online was unheard of! AOL was brand new and something called Prodigy was better than AOL. lol
We've been married 13yrs and he still gives me good bumps! I swear he does, even just a hug or cuddling on his lap I get goose bumps head to toe.
I'm now 31 and well he is still 8yrs old than me. lol
We haven't done anything to prevent us from falling out of love. It is true love. It is the way we treat each other, listen, care, we still hold hands and make a point to say "I love you" to each other.
There is no magic to make yourself not fall out of love with someone.
My marriage isn't perfect and I don't know what we have done to make it last. I thank the Lord daily and always question why my husband still loves me. I have so many faults from being lazy and over weight to having a major painful bladder disorder that can keep me in bed for weeks. So I wonder why he sticks with me.
I believe that old saying that when God creates a new soul He plans on creating a soul mate for that person. I've believed that since I was a child and I use to pray for my husband to be.
God bless
Compromise
Communication
Respect
Fidelity
Honesty
Being friends as well as lovers/having some things in common
By trying really hard to make the marriage/relationship work--even if counseling is needed at some point.
just because you love someone doesn't mean they're the person for you. obviously, some things help you stay together with the one you love, such as honesty, trust, friendship, and making sure they know how much you love them...but sometimes there's nothing you can do to make yourself stay in love with a person...you have to be open to the way God wants you to live your life, and when you really find the one that you are meant to be with, you will never fall out of love with them.
I stay in love with my husband, so I don't fall out of love! We go out on dates (rather infrequently, unfortunately), we talk all the time, we make sure that we are communicating (and not just about the house, bills, kids), we remember important dates, we put each other first. We like each other, too. That helps.
One thing to keep in mind... You can't truly appreciate the good if you haven't had the bad.
Basically, you need to experience a wide variety of people. Once you know what you really want in a mate, find it, and get it. Then you'll never want anything else.
If you've only dated a couple people, you may feel that the person you're with is awesome, but the absolute truth if is that you don't really know.
Give space in your relationship. If there is time together there should also be time for yourself. This is one way to prevent boredom.
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