Why do I hate myself?
I am very self destructive and self defeating, whats wrong with me?
Answer:
You aren't getting the results that you want,I believe.
Everyone goes through hard times. Its very important for oneself to realize their faults and make the needed changes. You took the first step today by admitting that there is a problem. Now its up to you to change it. If you find it too difficult to make the necessary changes, its advised to seek counseling. Good luck!
Everyone does that, you are your own worst enemy!
chances are SOMEONE in your life has made you feel horrible about yourself.
My ex husband did the same thing to me. after being told for a year and a half that i was ugly and no one but him wanted me i felt like i didnt deserve to live.
i attempted suicide.. but you see where that got me.. some friends rescued me. Its been almost 3 yrs since and my new support system tells me every day that i am an amazing strong and priceless person.
maybe you should get counseling. and get rid of the negative person in your life.
Good luck!!
Email me if you ever need someone to talk to !
cause it is so convenient. Find a purpose and get busy- volunteer for something- anything- and don't get paid for it.
you prolly feel like ur not good enuf depending on your age is different things but the main one is that someones made you feel like ur not good enuf like maybe idk your mom or soehting like that thats wh it i for me all the time and i continue to cut idk its my wwayof getting bac at her
I just answered a question on that. The people here leave very valid answers but, if you want more on the specific topic of self-destructive behavior.
"Why would one engage in selfdestrucive behavior?"
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Here is my answer from that post.
"It happens a lot more than people like to think. Why does a pissed off man who's losing his family going through a divorce and losing his job punch a hole in the wall, or blow their brains out, get drunk.
Sometimes it's a feeling of punishment. Why do some religions involve pain as teaching. They feel physical pain justifies a wrong. Some may do it for attention but, certainly not all. There are people that quietly drift by.
It may be a case of devaluing and submitting to simple pleasures because the bigger ones are far to reach. And on some account someone may hurt themselves and feel like they are punishing someone else.
It is strange how people can feel that they can just eradicate their pain by hitting or slamming something. By getting wasted and doing thoughtless things. Are they following what they feel is a suggestive by nature in their perception.
Why should someone wear scars to get an others attention why not just ask. Is it fear, Is it to impress people how much they are suffering is that how backwards our society has gotten. Or is it a backwards value system that is more in their power to control. Does it really matter how some achieve the fruits. I think it's just simply a contradiction of logic."
If you are not a good judge of character, then you have probably done bad stuff you are ashamed of.
Probably someone has made you feel bad about yourself and it's ended up with you hating yourself. I suggest you see a counsellor.
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Answer:
You aren't getting the results that you want,I believe.
Everyone goes through hard times. Its very important for oneself to realize their faults and make the needed changes. You took the first step today by admitting that there is a problem. Now its up to you to change it. If you find it too difficult to make the necessary changes, its advised to seek counseling. Good luck!
Everyone does that, you are your own worst enemy!
chances are SOMEONE in your life has made you feel horrible about yourself.
My ex husband did the same thing to me. after being told for a year and a half that i was ugly and no one but him wanted me i felt like i didnt deserve to live.
i attempted suicide.. but you see where that got me.. some friends rescued me. Its been almost 3 yrs since and my new support system tells me every day that i am an amazing strong and priceless person.
maybe you should get counseling. and get rid of the negative person in your life.
Good luck!!
Email me if you ever need someone to talk to !
cause it is so convenient. Find a purpose and get busy- volunteer for something- anything- and don't get paid for it.
you prolly feel like ur not good enuf depending on your age is different things but the main one is that someones made you feel like ur not good enuf like maybe idk your mom or soehting like that thats wh it i for me all the time and i continue to cut idk its my wwayof getting bac at her
I just answered a question on that. The people here leave very valid answers but, if you want more on the specific topic of self-destructive behavior.
"Why would one engage in selfdestrucive behavior?"
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Here is my answer from that post.
"It happens a lot more than people like to think. Why does a pissed off man who's losing his family going through a divorce and losing his job punch a hole in the wall, or blow their brains out, get drunk.
Sometimes it's a feeling of punishment. Why do some religions involve pain as teaching. They feel physical pain justifies a wrong. Some may do it for attention but, certainly not all. There are people that quietly drift by.
It may be a case of devaluing and submitting to simple pleasures because the bigger ones are far to reach. And on some account someone may hurt themselves and feel like they are punishing someone else.
It is strange how people can feel that they can just eradicate their pain by hitting or slamming something. By getting wasted and doing thoughtless things. Are they following what they feel is a suggestive by nature in their perception.
Why should someone wear scars to get an others attention why not just ask. Is it fear, Is it to impress people how much they are suffering is that how backwards our society has gotten. Or is it a backwards value system that is more in their power to control. Does it really matter how some achieve the fruits. I think it's just simply a contradiction of logic."
If you are not a good judge of character, then you have probably done bad stuff you are ashamed of.
Probably someone has made you feel bad about yourself and it's ended up with you hating yourself. I suggest you see a counsellor.
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