Dealing with dissappointment and false hope?
have you ever looked forward to something and just thinking about it made you so happy? heres my example:
I wanted to see my favorite band in concert a year go, just thinking about made me so happy on the inside, but i was told i couldnt go because my parents didn't want me to. I really didn't know how to deal with that because it made me so depressed.
now, my favorite band is coming to town again, I asked if I could go, and I was told yes we'll see. now I'm told I can't go. Knowing this band was coming to town made me so very happy, but I've come to realize that I do not trust anyone and having something to look forward to always ends in dissapointment for me.
how the hell do you deal with this?!
Answer:
you will have to laern that hapiness does not come from outer things such as cars, concerts, parties, etc... but is a state of mind in the individual. Until you figure that out, you will continue to be miserable and depressed over small things. I understand how it is frustrating, but it happens to be your situation, so might as well make the best of it.
I stopped hoping completely...I don't think that's good advice, but it certainly keeps the pain away.
So Sorry. What band is it, out of curiosity?
I couldn't go until I was out of high school and I had to be
in bed by 10pm also.
try doing extra work for your parents to see if that will change there mind and remember u will not be a teenager forever
GOT"JESUS"? THUMBS" UP IF YOU DO.
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I wanted to see my favorite band in concert a year go, just thinking about made me so happy on the inside, but i was told i couldnt go because my parents didn't want me to. I really didn't know how to deal with that because it made me so depressed.
now, my favorite band is coming to town again, I asked if I could go, and I was told yes we'll see. now I'm told I can't go. Knowing this band was coming to town made me so very happy, but I've come to realize that I do not trust anyone and having something to look forward to always ends in dissapointment for me.
how the hell do you deal with this?!
Answer:
you will have to laern that hapiness does not come from outer things such as cars, concerts, parties, etc... but is a state of mind in the individual. Until you figure that out, you will continue to be miserable and depressed over small things. I understand how it is frustrating, but it happens to be your situation, so might as well make the best of it.
I stopped hoping completely...I don't think that's good advice, but it certainly keeps the pain away.
So Sorry. What band is it, out of curiosity?
I couldn't go until I was out of high school and I had to be
in bed by 10pm also.
try doing extra work for your parents to see if that will change there mind and remember u will not be a teenager forever
GOT"JESUS"? THUMBS" UP IF YOU DO.
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