Please help me!?

I only have 1 major problem in my life and that it is that i have no girlfriend, the rest of my life is amazing, how come the only thing i can focuse on is that one little problem instead of all the good, wat is wrong with me and how can i fix it?

Answer:
you aren't happy with what you have. you want more. it's human nature, sadly. the best thing you can do is realize how lucky you really are that you have and "amazing" life. think about the little things everyday that you may have that others don't., anything from personality traits to materialistic things (as most people tend to regard them as more important, but that's another topic). appreciate yourself and your life. you won't worry about, or really even notice, the things you don't have if you truly appreciate what you do.
dont worry the time will come
do u really need a girl friend to have fun? ENJOY LIFE!!!!
U NEED A GIRL! MY COUSIN HAS THE SAME PROBLEM I TELL HIM IN TIME HE WILL FIND ONE SO WILL U :D
man ur lucky my life is a mess if ur life is as amazing as u say girls should not be a hard thing to get just dont settle for less when chosing a girl
eharmony
It is perfectly normal to obsess on something like romance. Especially if its absent. But there is nothing abnormal or wrong with being alone or in casual relationships. Romance cannot be forced to happen. I cant tell you how many people I know who have "settled" because they were afraid of being alone. In almost every case they are more miserable than they were alone.
well... just wait until ur girl comes it will be so much easier on u! trust me, and when u do... don"t be over so much like ya'll we know each other for 2 days but want to marry me no.. get to know her first and all but thats another story just look for her! k
You focus so much on it because you are probably, well, lonely. Doesn't matter how many friends you have, extra curricular activities you enjoy, or how satisfying your job is. When it comes down to it, you want someone to share all these wonderful things with. My advice is, be yourself and be open minded to different women and different situations. Never know who might open your eyes to a whole new world. P.S. Nothing is wrong with you, you are probably just one of those guys that women try to find their whole lives, and when they do, well frankly we arent ready for it. Just give it time.
Everyone does- not always, but people have a tendency to do that once in awhile-

We can't be happy ALL of the time- it's just human nature. And when you stop fretting about it, or thinking about it, you'll find her- the right one

OMG, I sound like my mom!
When one realizes their higher eternal spiritual nature they have no need for others to full full that empty place, because that place becomes filled with Pure love which no person place or thing can satisfy our hankering for Love like our Creator can.God also known as Krishna, Allah, Jehovah, Vishnu, etc. is love and is the only one who can satisfy fully that desire for it. Actually without love we can never be satisfied. And the love in this world is a perverted reflection of the actual love we are all seeking after. The think about material love is it always ends one way or another. ultimately in death. So why waste time seeking something temporary when you can get the real thing. Bhakti Yoga is the process of reconnecting with our creator in love and devotion in all of our activities. For info go to harekrishnatemple.com Read Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada. Tells how. I am no longer hankering for unfulfillinh love. I am satisfied. You can be too.
believe me the right one will come along when you least expect it. It did me. I went through a couple of bad relationships cause i was looking for love in all the wrong places. When i finallly just gave up trying god put the right person for me in my life and we are now married. Also, thought i would die never married. We have been happily married for only 2 years and i'm sure many more are coming our way. Don't rush it, it will happen soon enough. Hang in there. God Bless
The right person hasn't come along. When you stop trying it'll happen. Lighten up and wait on God.
When you stop looking, you'll find one. It's almost like they sense desperation

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