How can i be a gentle person?
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..The key to being gentle is to put yourself in the other person's shoes. In a way, you try to "feel her pain." You do this by imagining what life is like for her at this moment. What's her situation? What are her problems? What is she feeling?
When you get a notion of the other person's needs, it will help you to say and do things that are compassionate, helpful, sympathetic, kind, considerate, thoughtful, caring, generous, giving, sensitive...and yes - gentle.
er stop being so rough?
chill take a step back, let others take control, listen to other people and let them speak, do thoughtlful things for other people etc help them out?
No one can really show or tell you how to be gentle. It's just something that has to come from within. My advice to you is try to be more sensitive to other peoples needs other than your own and perhaps your gentleness will show more. You're off to a great start already by asking for advice. :)
meditate
You said "please"... that's a good start.
I truly am not being silly, but if you've seen any Star Trek re-runs, I'd describe it as Spock's mind meld. It requires disassociation from one's own problems, & having true empathy for someone else. When you do this, (very sincerely), you can "tune in" to someone's needs, & without judgment, or telling them "what to do"--you can be so very much there for them. "Gentle" is definitely the key word. I'd suggest not being hasty, or having great expectations of yourself. In time, (depending on you), it will be so automatic you won't even think about it. For me, there is nothing as fulfilling. Not for reward or compliments. It is a gift.
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