When I am 35 yrs old, do u think "the Secret" will work for me n I find a male?
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..It's really not a "secret." That's just clever marketing to get people to buy books and tapes. The core ideas of "The Secret" have been the main theme of books about success for over 50 years.
But their advice is good. Visualizing positive outcomes helps. Visualizing negative outcomes hinders you. The reason is that if you sincerely believe something good will happen, it affects what you think about and what you do day by day. And this, in turn sets up a chain of consequences that is far more likely to help you achieve your goal than if you believed the negative outcome.
So, Sabrina, I recommend that you do it. But that won't be enough. Just thinking about it won't make it happen. Work on being a smarter, stronger, better person. Meet people. Be selective about who you date...don't be needy. Do things. Achieve things. Give yourself credit. Be your own best friend. Get confident. Self-confidence is the ultimate attractant for males.
You go, girl!
yeah its about the law of attraction. work on who you are and you attract those energies and people into your life. it's pretty much the universes way of balance and setting you up with whats right
"They look so self confident." For some reason, (I'll later discover), I'm focusing on that. Rhetorical question: Do you base you self confidence on what you perceive in others? I also wonder, what is the "secret" you want to work for you? Is finding a "male" your primary goal? I'm not making a judgment about that, if it's true. But what interests me is your "view" of other women. We don't all need, or want the same things. Our outer society really hasn't anything to do with this. If what you want is a relationship, there's really no "secret" about it. It will happen when/if it happens.
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