I am not intrested in sex please help?
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I don't know that we all have to enjoy sex. But we all benefit from being intimate with someone and the holding and touching. I think you would benefit from the both of you talking with a good counselor. Make sure your husband understands that you love him and you want to make you relationship last.
Good luck. You have several of the foundations for a healthy relationship: a marriage to a man you love and a willingness to improve that marriage.
Good luck.
Consult a Doctor!
I think it is natural not to be interested in sex after a while. There are other ways to be intimate with your husband besides sex though. Give him a massage. Go for a walk every night and hold hands. Sit down and eat together every night and just learn to enjoy his company again. Good luck!
First of all, congrats on a 12 year marriage! I've rarely known couples to make it past 5 years, sadly.
Ok, so there are a crap load of reasons to explain why a women has lost her libido. Here's a good article about the reasons for this... http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relations...
Hope everything works out for you.
You are what is referred to as "A-Sexual". It basically means someone "Lacking interest in or desire for sex" and it is not uncommon,
What you need to do is decide what it is you dislike, and what you can tollerate. Sex to some is a basic need, and loving someone is more than just saying i love you, its about your actions etc. We all make sacrifices, and this will be yours. While you may not like penetration, how about oral or hand relief?
Is it possible that something in your past is responsible? Perhaps a blocked memory?
there is temberey selutions have more for sex but ho knows camepliet u r hart u r maind do not los them it s all about u r maind try to keep satisfaid maind will change all ways keep control pest of lock one day u will be enjoy...
Glad u thought of solving it atleast now.
Anyway. here are some simple things u can do... u can tell ur husband how u feel when u make love.
Also in the mean time try to recognise the problem that is causing u this frustration.
It's definitely not a problem due to meditating or past. Sex is something u enjoy more when ur brain is blank. It all depends on how your day has been or sometimes other. If you have been doing too many household stuffs or been busy with kids... all this keeps ur brain occupied... like did i finish that?... did kids do their work?... etc.
When u go to bed just try to be blank.. all u know is u r gonna be happily talking to ur husband and enjoying ur time together. This wont happen in a day or two. ur husband will have to play a big role in this. Your body and mind has to relax.
Also u should start re-exploring ur pleasures. Like trying out various poses. or some foreplay. etc.
Iam sure if ur husband can manage to do a fair enough foreplay with u.. u will enjoy it. Sometimes u expect to be handled differently. noway will ur husband know wat u need without u telling him. So do some open talking.. and relax a bit. Enjoy a lot.
Also remind ur brain... this is fun!
Try this for a month or two. but if u still unable to cope with it. just talk to ur gyno... they can help u... if it's medical.
Stop living in the past and don't bother about the future. Live and Let Live the Present Moment. Thats all that matters.
You are unnecessary worrying and may be tensed while having sex with your husband and that may be the reason why you dont enjoy it. You get angry or disturbed may be because you must be getting your mind diverted to subjects not required while having sex. You also say you meditate. I say you don't meditate. People who meditate live in the present moment. So learn to live the present moment and all your worries and problems will get solved. Make your husband happy, else you already know what will be happen.
sex does not only intercourse
please try to understand first
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