Can anyone cheer me up? please?
Turns out they won't fix it because it may end up worse.
I really don't know what to do. It really bothers me that I can't fix it.
I'm just sooo upset... I imagined how it would look like and feel like if I got it fixed and now it turns out they can't.
Can anyone cheer me up? pls.?
I'm usually a good student but I don't see the point anymore of working hard if your dreams (in my case to get this fixed) won't come true.
Answer:
I'm sorry you feel bad about yourself,
But remember you beauty comes from the inside and radiates to your outside. It's O.K. to feel down when an expectation isn't met but don't let it keep you down. I'm sure you notice your eyes and the ptosis more than anyone else does. I remember two girls I used to work with. One was an absolute knockout and knew it, but she was not very nice, the other girl thought of herself as rather plain but had a wonderful personality, she was outgoing and kind to everyone and her beauty came from her spirit. The beautiful girl was not asked out once, but the plain girl had a date every weekend. (note: she was not promiscuous). Keep up your studies it will help you throughout your life and you'll discover that you have many dreams that will come true. When I was young the only dream I had was to be a pilot, that dream was shut down when I went to the ophthalmologist because I could not see out of one eye as good as the other one. The only thing he told me was that the only job I couldn't do was fly planes. I felt pretty bad at the time but soon other goals and dreams took that ones place. So keep positive, I'm sure you are a wonderful woman and have a lot going for you and even though it doesn't seem like it now this problem in reality is pretty small compared to the rest of your life.
I'll be praying for you.
its ok!!dont let it bother you so much!! think of good things in your life right now not the negative
Once I met a gorgeous girl in a club and went back to her place, we had amazing sex and got along really well,we swapped phone numbers and fell asleep. In the middle of the night I woke up with a funny belly and to my absolute horror I realized id had a monumental case of diarrhea. I tried a halve hearted pathetic attempt to clean up my foul smelling mess that she was halve laying in, being careful not to wake her and eventually admitted defeat and sneaked home.
I dont go to that nightclub or even that part of town at all anymore. I ignored her phone calls
Dont give up hope. In most cases, even severe ones, ptosis can be fixed by surgery. Find another specialist and get a surgeon who is confident he can do the job.
I'm sure you are a beautiful person inside, AND OUT, I know looks can hurt or help your self esteem, get past it and be the person you are...I'm sure you have many friends and they don't care what you look like, they only care about you and how they can support you. If someone doesn't like or respect you for who you are because of what you may look like, then f* them, they can't be as beautiful of a person than you are. You will come across other beautiful people in your lifetime as they won't even notice or care what you look like, it's what's on the inside that matters...Cheer up, you'll get past it and learn to accept yourself and see yourself as those who love you do...
I would get a second opinion, as a quick search on the net about ptosis say "Patients with ptosis often have difficult blinking, which may lead to irritation, infection and eyestrain" which is never good, and isn't something that a good doctor would really want to leave to happen.
Have you got a second opinion at all? Some doctors don't want patients seeking second opinions as it can imply they aren't capable. In this case seeking the opinion of a ophthalmologist specializing in plastic and reconstructive surgery would be advantageous.
Try going out wit your friends to take your mind off things, go see a funny movie, then afterwards, grab some ice cream with your girlfriends and talk about fun girly stuff. Then go home, watch "Sex and the City" after you take a bubble bath while painting your toes. If that doesn't work, then I don't know what will.
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