Hi i have this problem?
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Right now, you perceive that the process of asking for help is a sign of weakness.
I suggest that you consider asking for opinions on a general subject rather than asking for help on a specific subject.
Even though most people will see through your ploy, you can still keep your feeling of self reliance intact while also garnering some good advice that may very well solve the problem.
Keep your advice impersonal and just ask for help and hopefully you can differentiate between functional adice and other advice. Good luck.
i think i understand where you are coming from, and the best thing to do in this situation i to talk, talk about this to some one you know or you could email me nebi2583@yahoo.com. i would be glad to talk to you about it.
It seems as if you've got rather a lot going on and you're going through some changes now ... but rather than try to get into those (it would mean too much guesswork for it to be useful to you) might I recommend that you try long walks (or any place where you won't be thought eccentric) and talk to yourself. Out loud. Pretend to be talking to someone else if it helps, but getting it out of your head and into the clear air often helps straighten the problem-solving process. (Don't forget a notebook and pen).
I wish you well with the other stuff - sorry, I can't get a handle on it and so can't be more help.
this is a normal reaction that guys get
Most people over a long period of time become set in their ways, and then as time progresses on we find it even harder to change, my advice to you do it slow over a period of time and your problem i hope will start to become easier. But that depends on the problem you are in to start with.
I do understand. I've always been an independent person taking charge of my own life and two years ago, after Hurricane Katrina, my husband and I lost everything we owned. I mean everything. At that point we had to learn to accept help from others (strangers and family) and I tell you, it was extremely painful for both of us. My pride was hurt until I realized that what happened was not our fault and that by allowing others to give to us in our time of need, we were allowing them to feel blessed. It is indeed "more blessed to give than to receive." Very moving question and I know you'll come out on top! Godloveya.
Have you tried Bach Flower remedies? It sounds like water violet would help in your situation. It will make it easier for you to get past your natural reserve so you can make a connection with other people. Try reading the Encyclopedia of Bach Flower Therapy by Mechthild Scheffer. You can useit to figure out which is the best combination of essences for your situation
Yes you need help with your punctuation and your grammer is a little off. If you want I could help... :)
No man is an island. Even a very independent person has to ask for and accept help from others every now and again. The important thing is to find people you trust to help you through things.
By the way - asking this question on this page is asking for help, so you're doing better than you thought. :)
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looking as a problem as a whole pie is not going to get you anywhere.
If you know you have a problem accepting help and you know you need help hear is what to do
everytime you accept any kind of help praise yourself ..babysteps..focuse on your achievments and not on your defeats.
next make a goal orientated plan with small steps to reach your final outcome. Be happy for each step closer and don't dwell on the setbacks
also make a list of your strengths and know yourself and them. Don't focus only on your weakness.
No one can get anywhere in life if they focus only on the setbacks, the negative, take a postive outlook and a small step by step approach and the problem may not seem so overwhelming.
i am not making small your problem. I had to overcome great obsticals in my life the biggest one is my own nervousness and seeing doom looming on the horizon all the time and this approach worked for me. I hope i was helpful. I am a psy student and don't have all the answers
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