I hate going down the school some women are alright but their?
are alot of bitchy women does anyone else noticed this and how have they coped with some of them
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Rachel dear, if you're going to criticise someone else's grammar, you might make the effort with your own! And heacox, you're a real jewel. Society must be bursting with pride to have you amongst it's ranks.
Denise, there is more to life than worrying about what other people (who in other circumstances you'd never even look at) might be saying. Ignore what you think they might be saying and hold your head high. Talk to only those you trust and like. Life is difficult enough without getting all wound up over people you don't even like.
wha??? you hate going to school and therefore have problems with complete, coherent sentences?
Of course women *** at you. You can't form coherent sentences. I'd *** at you too. No one probably has any clue what your talking about at any given time. That's your fault pal.
thank your lucky stars they are not bitching about you and you are well out of it. just think what they may say about you if you were one of their gang. chin up and ignore them, they have nothing else in their lives to worry about. your better than that!
Do you mean when you drop your children off? Just try being friendly with evryone a smile goes along way
ignore people who are making you feel uncomfortable, dont make it obvious just keep yourself to yourself and dont get involved with the gossips
Oh yes I remember it well! When my kids were in the local school I met all sorts, you'd get the Mums that were just ordinary, friendly and down to earth, then you'd get the bitchy Mums, they were awful and seemed quite intimidating in the beginning, they usually would be the ones that would huddle together in their little groups, critising anyone that wasn't in their clique, and everyone that walked past them. As I didn't want to join in the gossiping I knew they were probably bad mouthing me too, although they didn't even know me. It made me feel really uncomfortable at first. I thought maybe I was being oversensitive but even my hubbie noticed the atmosphere when he picked up the kids sometimes. I just steered clear of them, I wasn't ignorant I would say hello in passing and then I would tend to stand by someone else who was on their own and looked a bit out of it. You tend to see the same people there and you gradually become to know which people you feel comfortable with and talk to them. I just used to take no notice in the end, they talked about each other all the time as well as everyone else, I prefer not to be dragged into that sort of situation, it just spells trouble.
Just try and look confident but friendly and then they're not likely to bother you as they'll see you can't be intimidated, and if you do end up in conversation with them, they will pick up on the fact that you don't want to join in with the bitching, even if they do. If they think you're just being snobby, well who cares, the decent people will know you're not. More often than not bitchy women do it either out of jealousy or insecurity, so they've got a problem not you. I know how you feel though sometimes the childish, bullying behaviour can be just as bad outside the school gates as in! Just try and look confident, they'll soon get the message and you'll soon find that there are lots of other Mums there that feel the same as you. All the best!
Just be yourself sweet. I remember the intimidation of my early school walks as a mum.
Once your child makes friends then you will as well.
Walk to the school with your head high; ignore the bitchy ones, bet they are all made up to the nines with nothing else in their lives!
Ignore them; they cannot hurt you. Just smile and stick to your own friends.
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Rachel dear, if you're going to criticise someone else's grammar, you might make the effort with your own! And heacox, you're a real jewel. Society must be bursting with pride to have you amongst it's ranks.
Denise, there is more to life than worrying about what other people (who in other circumstances you'd never even look at) might be saying. Ignore what you think they might be saying and hold your head high. Talk to only those you trust and like. Life is difficult enough without getting all wound up over people you don't even like.
wha??? you hate going to school and therefore have problems with complete, coherent sentences?
Of course women *** at you. You can't form coherent sentences. I'd *** at you too. No one probably has any clue what your talking about at any given time. That's your fault pal.
thank your lucky stars they are not bitching about you and you are well out of it. just think what they may say about you if you were one of their gang. chin up and ignore them, they have nothing else in their lives to worry about. your better than that!
Do you mean when you drop your children off? Just try being friendly with evryone a smile goes along way
ignore people who are making you feel uncomfortable, dont make it obvious just keep yourself to yourself and dont get involved with the gossips
Oh yes I remember it well! When my kids were in the local school I met all sorts, you'd get the Mums that were just ordinary, friendly and down to earth, then you'd get the bitchy Mums, they were awful and seemed quite intimidating in the beginning, they usually would be the ones that would huddle together in their little groups, critising anyone that wasn't in their clique, and everyone that walked past them. As I didn't want to join in the gossiping I knew they were probably bad mouthing me too, although they didn't even know me. It made me feel really uncomfortable at first. I thought maybe I was being oversensitive but even my hubbie noticed the atmosphere when he picked up the kids sometimes. I just steered clear of them, I wasn't ignorant I would say hello in passing and then I would tend to stand by someone else who was on their own and looked a bit out of it. You tend to see the same people there and you gradually become to know which people you feel comfortable with and talk to them. I just used to take no notice in the end, they talked about each other all the time as well as everyone else, I prefer not to be dragged into that sort of situation, it just spells trouble.
Just try and look confident but friendly and then they're not likely to bother you as they'll see you can't be intimidated, and if you do end up in conversation with them, they will pick up on the fact that you don't want to join in with the bitching, even if they do. If they think you're just being snobby, well who cares, the decent people will know you're not. More often than not bitchy women do it either out of jealousy or insecurity, so they've got a problem not you. I know how you feel though sometimes the childish, bullying behaviour can be just as bad outside the school gates as in! Just try and look confident, they'll soon get the message and you'll soon find that there are lots of other Mums there that feel the same as you. All the best!
Just be yourself sweet. I remember the intimidation of my early school walks as a mum.
Once your child makes friends then you will as well.
Walk to the school with your head high; ignore the bitchy ones, bet they are all made up to the nines with nothing else in their lives!
Ignore them; they cannot hurt you. Just smile and stick to your own friends.
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