Want you do abount people sreading nasty untrue rumours making your life a misery and causing anxiety?
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Ignore them. It is none of your business what other people think of you and get on with your life. You cannot change the person but you can change the way you react to their issues.
is it my ex? i bet it is,,
Find out whose big mouth is spreading the rumors and where the soarse is coming from and confront them but do so in peace and then, thank them for helping you see that you are not like them, which should cause you to sleep better at night.
that is harassment. tell them to stop. if they don't, then report it.depending on where this happens, report it to the supervisor if at work, police or community mediator if in your neighborhood.
harassment is illegal. You can always threaten with a lawsuit for defamation of character, slander, and harassment. (And if they write nasty thing include libel). Use the internet to find out how to write an offical sounding letter from an attorney. I wishu the best.
Ignore them if you let them no it isn't affecting you, they will most likely give up and stop.
Honey, I'd hold my head up and go on as if they didn't exist. If you are hurting over the rumors then the people telling them is getting the best of you. You've heard the old saying about sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. One thing about gossip it isn't remembered long because another juicy tale will take it's place soon.
time will help eventually but, for now, put distance between them and you. no contact. don't allow it. if they are family or in your working enviornment. make plans to move on and call on the friends you can count on. if none. still, move on. the more you complain, the more you highlight and make it harder to forget. and learn from it. never let it happen again. for one, there are people who are just mean and evil. you must learn to spot them. doesn't hurt to be a little paranoid sometimes. just don't let it show. smile and go on to a new situation. then time will make it absolutely nothing eventually. wierd world, huh?
First don't read them. If you can't hear it, Then it wasn't said. Bit like if a tree falls in the forest and no ones there did it make a sound. second roll with it. If some one askes did you do --- just say! why cant you , or haven't you poor thing. Turn your back on the ones saying it there not you friends make new once it may take a little time, but its time well spent
Once they see its not upsetting you there will have to turn on someone new. Be happy,
I would say confront them about it.
If you can't come to a peaceful resolution, then it looks like they have left you little recourse.
At that point engage with extreme prejudice.
Problem solved.
nothing, consider the source. it isn't nice, but people often feel better about themselves when they think they can put others down.
people do that because they are insecure and jealous so if you're in their firing range you must be doing something right
its all about how you perceive it
dont mix with them and take more spas
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