Feeling guilty and confussed?
recently my friends and I want to see the new pirates of the caribbeans 3. the thing is that i am currently having the roughtest time trying to get a job. i do have some money in my checking and saving account, but everytime they pay for something for themselves and me, i tend to feel guily like im taking advantage of them. i do pay for stuff for myself and them trying to make up for the stuff they bought me. but the thing is that to me it feels like the have payed for me more then what i did for them.
Is this normal behavior, need advice.
Answer:
You are normal. From your friends point of view, they want you to go with them to have a good time, even if they have to pay for it. They know you, so it stands to reason, they also know your financial woes. That is what having friends is all about. You don't have to keep tabs on who buys what or what you owe because they know you would do the same for them if they were going through tough times, right? So go and have a good time and enjoy the night spent with people who care about you and want to spend time with you.
Friends help out their friends. Let them help you, there will probably be a day that they will need your help in return. Don't feel guilty. Just tell them that when you do get a job and are better off you are going to treat them to a great dinner or something. My friends and I do this all the time. We know when one is in a jam and we will take care of the bill for each other. Honestly I would rather pay the bill then go out by myself.
I can understand why you feel bad about the whole situation. Maybe they don't mind paying for you sometimes. You could talk to your friends and tell them you're sorry for them always having to pay for you and that ur just having a tough time getting a job and will try to pay them back soon. If they're ur true friends they should understand. Don't worry u'll get a job soon! Good luck!
Hey! Pirates 3 just came out like, 48 minutes ago! How'd u see it?!?!? i'm seeing it sat. night wit my peeps. love it! laytah!!
What you have is a group of very good friends who see that you currently have a need and enjoy your company. Although you may not have money you could let them know you appreciate the help by sending a note or just calling after an event and saying thanks. If you have a talent, like making crafts or cooking then make the friends something special to let them know that you appreciate them. The day will come when you are the one who can help out, just remember it when it does.
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Is this normal behavior, need advice.
Answer:
You are normal. From your friends point of view, they want you to go with them to have a good time, even if they have to pay for it. They know you, so it stands to reason, they also know your financial woes. That is what having friends is all about. You don't have to keep tabs on who buys what or what you owe because they know you would do the same for them if they were going through tough times, right? So go and have a good time and enjoy the night spent with people who care about you and want to spend time with you.
Friends help out their friends. Let them help you, there will probably be a day that they will need your help in return. Don't feel guilty. Just tell them that when you do get a job and are better off you are going to treat them to a great dinner or something. My friends and I do this all the time. We know when one is in a jam and we will take care of the bill for each other. Honestly I would rather pay the bill then go out by myself.
I can understand why you feel bad about the whole situation. Maybe they don't mind paying for you sometimes. You could talk to your friends and tell them you're sorry for them always having to pay for you and that ur just having a tough time getting a job and will try to pay them back soon. If they're ur true friends they should understand. Don't worry u'll get a job soon! Good luck!
Hey! Pirates 3 just came out like, 48 minutes ago! How'd u see it?!?!? i'm seeing it sat. night wit my peeps. love it! laytah!!
What you have is a group of very good friends who see that you currently have a need and enjoy your company. Although you may not have money you could let them know you appreciate the help by sending a note or just calling after an event and saying thanks. If you have a talent, like making crafts or cooking then make the friends something special to let them know that you appreciate them. The day will come when you are the one who can help out, just remember it when it does.
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