What would you do in my situation?
I don't like the city where I live. I don't know myself or what I like.
I don't have friends. I'm not rich. I have trouble studying.
Answer:
You need to talk to a professional, and also you need to pray and ask God to give you wisdom, knowledge, strength, and understanding. Ask him to lead, guide, and direct your path. Some people lives are harder than others. I am not in your situation but I feel your pain. I will say a prayer for you. I know its hard out here sometimes. But I do believe that you will find yourself and you will make it in life. Just believe that you will make it. Read the book a Piece of Cake by Cupcake Brown. She had a hard life she found her mother dead at 11 years old, she was raped, in foster home after foster home, homeless, you name it she done it. Visit her website at www.cupcakebrown.com and read about her. He story is an inspiration if she can make it I know I can. she is now an attorney at one of the worlds largest law firms in America she made it through her trials and tribulations. Keep your head up.
Get professional help- your sense of "non being" could be linked to an overwhelming grief.
You are in there somewhere!
I would give myself a fresh start. Are you old enough to leave home? do you have relatives in a different state that you can stay with?
You need to make some friends to have a better support system and some fun. Do you have trouble reaching out to people and connecting?
It's very important that you find yourself. The life you are leading is bringing you down. Get a job on an ocean liner, a janitor at a retreat, bus-boy at a nice restaurant.
Start looking on the Internet for opportunities elsewhere. Try Australia... there are some jobs there in construction that will pay for your trip, health care and housing. You have to commit for at least a year, but it will get you away from that depressing environment.
Take a vacation. Go camping for a few days and clear your mind. (When I say camping I mean pack up your tent and go into the woods) Take a compass so you can find your way back and tell your family that you will be back and when you will be back, so they don't report you missing.
it sounds like a tough life.
i emphasiz on all of it except the brother and father situation.
all other things im going through it Right Now !
its tough and its hard to not be upset all the time. for me since when i feel this way i go for a walk or make a poster of all the things that relate to how im feeling or what i like to do.
since you dont know yourself give a few things a try, go window shopping, get a disposible cameara and take pic's that You think are interesting or weird.
good luck
Your brother needs you! Give him the help, love and support he needs. You'll see him grow happier and so will you. When it comes to studying you need to understand that by finishing a couple of assignments or what have you, you'll automatically feel better. You don't need many friends, find 1 or 2 TRUE friends who'll support you and be there for you as friends should do. Along side your compulsories find something else you enjoy doing and DO IT. What ever you feel doing don't feel like you are too upset or depressed to do. Life's too short to go on about how bad and sad you feel. Try and at least accomplish one thing you want to do... the smile will come back! I had the same feeling as you had a couple of months ago and this is what I did, which made me feel much better. BUT... you need to be true to yourself and know what it is you want and go for it. All the other minor issues that are annoying you will fall in to the right place. Good luck!
Boy is your life screwed up. I do not see any way out of it. You need to stop being selfish and think of your family for once. Ever stop to think that your brother might need you. People crack me up, always crying about how they do not fit into society. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something with your life. Grow up and get over it!
sorry to hear about your troubles.
do you have to take care of your brother? if you do that's very comendable of you. i know how hard it can be takong care of someone w/ special needs. if you do care for him do you get breaks? like a day off just for you to go hang out or whatever? if not then i'd recommend working a day off. it can do wonders for your state of mind.
as far as not liking you city, once you graduate you can always apply for jobs in a different city if you still want to.
good luck
leave move away as far as you can.
Go to Earle C. Clements Job Corps. in Morganfield,Kentucky.
You may get the phone number by dialing 1411.
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