How do you cope with someone whos mind phucking you everyday?
Answer:
Inner Conviction.
There are levels of personal conviction that can be imagined as a series of concentric circles... the outermost convictions are ones that can waver and be changed easily by outside influences (ie. "that color is pretty", "eggs are good"). As you go inward the convictions become more central to who you are until you reach the center, where the convictions are what make you who you are (ie. "There are no absolutes is life", "Killing is wrong")
If You have things that you truly believe in your inner-most self... Latch on to those things and make them central to your everyday life; then no-one can get into your head but You. :)
Well if you are really that intimidated, I would just avoid talking with them. Plenty of other people out there to talk to and hang out with.
Here's my answer. You totally block them from your life. You turn your back on the game playing. I don't care if they are related to you or not. You need to ban them from your area for good.
You don't. You avoid them and don't believe anything they say.
you can't just get this mind-phucker out of your life? that's generally the best way
it sounds like you need to hit that.
Never let anyone rent space in your head. Stay away from people like that.
This is the 'Mind-Game' department - loonies welcome sorta thing...the grass is always shorter ecetera ecetera
If yer being so called mind-phucked then you need to assess the motives: are you suspicious by nature? Are you the onset or culprit of your assumptions? Is jealousy so hardend in yer bones?
A geste or foreign natural language means you bury yer head in the sand - then its not all mind-games - it actually means that you are playing games and not yer partner. The accuser always needs to assess their own motives.
Judge thy self before passing it upon others are biblical terms.
After the assesment period - then and only then can you pass the ball.
Not all men are born equal - not all women are born equal. Not all situations are born equal. It takes time to understand the differences - if you are uncomfortable with your friends apparent ease with others then its time to call it a day and find someone who is more suited to your needs.
Knowing they joust with words, develop the fine art of conversation, which is really what they want from you. Familiarity with a person leads to bantering, not the same as bickering. Its like a game of tennis. When someone gives you an opening line, -the ball is now in your court. You may wish to put some English on it. (bad pun)
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