I feel like killing myself.?
I am 16 and my life is going.....
Did this happen to you ? what did you do to over come it ?
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DON'T DO IT MAN! You seriously need to talk to someone, if you can't talk to your parents. Talk to an adult that you trust. That feeling of sadness goes away and you can overcome it all it takes is a little effort on your behalf, and that effort is as simple as you saying " I need help". As far as you not being accepted by kids of your own age, come on there has to be atleast one person your talking too. Honestly who cares what anyone else thinks, those a**holes that F*cked with you are all going to realize that they screwed up when you are thier boss. You need to set some goals for yourself in life, so you can have something to try and achieve for. If you end your life now there will be alot of emptiness in this world where could have filled that void, not to mention getting your first piece of A** ( come on man your sixteen, I was 16 before that was all I thought about then). You are not worthless the ones who are worthless and the ones that F*ck with people. If you don't have anyone to talk to then leave comment and I will change my answer to answer your question, it will be like a crappy way to IM. You need to get help, please talk to someone!
don't!! what are your parents going to do?? just don't!! things will get better
Make an appointment with your doctor immediately, you need help. Your doctor can arrange an appointment with a counsellor. Take no notice of people who say 'get over it', you really need someone to talk to. Good luck and I hope you get the help you need.
Go talk to someone about how you are feeling. You are not alone. Chances are, you suffer from depression. Depression is a chemical inbalance within your brain which causes you to think negative thoughts and feel low.
With medication, you could live a normal life. Don't think lower of yourself because you suffer from depression. Many americans suffer from it. Get some help before it's too late. You are too young to end your life.
It happened to me when I felt like my life was going wrong. The way I overcame it was to realize that tomorrow was another day and I had to live to make it bettere for those around me.
I feel like that sometimes and did a lot when I was your age. It sounds like depression but you need to go to a doctor for a professional diagnosis. You have to learn to help yourself, believe in yourself, believe things will get better. Meds might help you but they aren't for everybody. There is more to the fresh air thing than just going outside. Exercise releases chemicals in your body that have a feel good effect on your brain, like a reward center that makes you feel satisfied. Listening to music can have the same effect. If it is more than a general feeling of sadness and lethargy and you really do feel like you would do something permanent you need to talk to somebody. Your parents would be devastated to see you write this, no matter how much you might think they don't care. Call a help line or suicide hot line in your area. Just talking to a real person can help put things in perspective. Good luck to you and please don't go through with anything silly =)
Dont give up. Do something extreme. Pack your bags and go to Thailand, Vietnam or India. You will experience something different from the everyday American life. Just do something instead of occupying your mind with these thoughts.
You feel like you have lost all controll in your life? so you need to learn how to take controll and stop being influenced by other people. By the sounds of it if people keep taking from you it's because you're not honest enough to stand up for your own needs and desires in life, and are too worried about what other people will think about you. Try reading some self help books. I great one I read is 'Radicall Honesty by Brad Blanton' It's a bit extremist but it helps you to realise why we can be made to feel suffocated if we worry too much about making other people happy and forget to nurture our own needs. I read this book 5 years ago when I was feeling scuicidal, and now I am one of the happiest people. I love life, and I love my new freedom. Never give up hope because you can turn your life around and start to smell the roses again. I hope you will soon be feeling much better :)
This is a very normal thing to feel at age 16...but please, do NOT follow thru on this...it is something that you absolutely cannot undo once it's done! Life DOES get better...you need to trust us on this one...and everyone who has responded to your question does care about you or else we wouldn't have taken the time to answer you! You DO matter in this life...you are here for a reason! Talk to someone...find a best friend...do whatever it takes to get yourself thru this growth stage in your life. At 16 you are at a turning point...starting to work towards adulthood and leaving your childhood behind...embrace these changes instead of fighting them. Allow yourself to become whatever you want to become (other than dead) and you will find that life is much better than you could ever imagine it to be. Please keep in mind that your reality starts with a thought in your head...every bit of information we take in gets processed through our brain first, so if you don't like your reality, all you have to do is just change your mind...then you change your reality. It really is that easy!
Dude you need to get Tough.. the hell with all the others in this world..God loves you man but you will not move on until you love yourself. you don't need to find a reason to kill yourself man you need to find reasons to live .. we all do, Cmon man it's nothing new you think when I was 16 i didn't want to kill my self either and 18 an 21, 24 26 27 29,&31 till I finally saw someone about it. Little bro listen it will get better and it's gonna get worse at times too. All I can tell you is God does love you and He or she isn't ready for you to come home yet. You are not tyhe same person you will be in 5 more years and 10 and then again in twenty. Let your life unfold man, just love yourself because it's you no reason, I love you kid and I don't evan know you but you need to trust me on somthing it aint gonna be easy.. I made it and so can you.. I only wish my big brother would have..He shot himself when I was 12...Take it easy on yourself. the beautiful thing about life man is you can always stiil change it and start new..
you should divert your energies to more positive things or activities. do not think of negative thoughts as these would really depress you. why don't you play basketball with someone else or play badminton with someone to be able to remove negative thoughts out of your head.
I went out and made a bunch of money and payed for happiness. No matter how bad you feel, or how bad things get that you have no control over, you got to make the right choices. By doing this eventually things get better. It is these things we all go through that make us stronger in later years. In the end we all end up not really giving a shittt any more. But at this point we seem happier for it.
i really have don't have much to say but trust me don't do it. When i am feeling like you are, i always listen to the red hot chili peppers. it might not help for you , but theirs an idea. Go to you tube and type in rhcp don't forget about me. great song.
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