Improper thoughts?
When im self-medicating (tugjob) i keep thinking about some French girl who isnt brunette.
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ummmmmmm.....okay.... ur question is...?....
have you noticed how perfect my parting is?
its perfect
Maybe you don't fancy your gf?
Thanks for sharing.
Now what's your question again?
Thoughts like that are normal, or at least to me; I don't think your girlfriend is going to be the only object of fantasy, especially if you are the kind of guy (as many, many guys do) who watch/read porn. As well as this, complete and utter devotion to your gf is not needed; how many girls do not still fantasise about Brad Pitt or Chad Michael Murray even when they have a boyfriend?
However, if it's constant or too often...then maybe you should just think about your relationship a little...are you really that in love with her? Or is it just a down moment in your relationship? Would you rather not be with her?
Sorry, complicated answer, I know. xD
I don't think it's a problem to fantasise about others...
I was reading a really raunchy book and then had great sex with my other half. I wasn't fantasising about my other half. I was just thinking about the scenario I had just read. He knows that. Doesn't make us bad people. The brain is a major part in sex and sometimes the same routine can bore us.
I think this is why people like porn and dressing up, it's not about not loving the person your with, it's about joining in together to make it more exciting.
I maybe wouldn't tell your gf unless she asks or something... but it's nothing to be ashamed of.
Completely normal. Don't worry.
I don't see what the problem is. It's human nature and very natural to fantasize. Unless you are losing feelings for your current gf then I wouldn't worry about it.
The Bible says that any man who lusts after another woman has already committed adultery in their heart.
Those aren't improper thoughts, they're natural thoughts and don't let the Bible-thumpers browbeat you.
As long as you love your girlfriend, that's all that matters. It doesn't matter if you think of Angelina Jolie when you need to summon a stiffening. Whatever works to let your girlfriend know you love her, dude.
It ok to have fantasies just don't act out on them. x
You only have thoughts about yourself. It's all about you, isn't it? Don't worry, your GF probably imagines she's making out with some other guy whenever she's with you, too.
maybe u and ur gf need 2 separate for a while. u should go on a trip or visit some relatives in a different city 4 a week or 2 u r probably having problems wit her and have problems with an ex or something!! its natural and everyone fantasizes!!!!!!
You sound like me: and usually in my fantasies I'm *not* me - I'm someone who can do all the stuff I can't do. And, sometimes in my fantasies I'm this other person with my husband - but sometimes I'm this other person with some other person.
Is it possible that's what's going on with you?
Helen
could be standard fantasy. We all would like to bone up certain girls seems you are infatuated and not in love. Crack off a few times and it will go in a few months.
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