What was the incident which affected you maximum and how did you came out of that stressful situation?
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About four years ago, I moved down with a boy (thought he was a man) to Florida, from Oklahoma. We had been together for about 6 years at the time. We had about $5,000 saved up and when we got here, we paid all of our bills forward for about 4 months. That's what we used the money for. Anywho, once the money ran out, this dude decided to leave. He left alright and all he left was a message on the answering machine (from greyhound) and the keys on the table. He actually left when he didn't have the $$ for his portion of the rent and bills. I had no family here, no friends and no life. The move to Florida was totally and completely his idea. What did I do? I got depressed, I slept around out of anger, I lost hope and then...I started to pray. I needed help and started reading some self help books and started to work out. I also decided to stay in Florida. I figured I made it this way for some reason. Right? Since then, it's been four years. I'm happy to say that that experience brought me to my complete self knowledge and confidence. He tried, and was almost successful, but he didn't break me. He actually got worse when he returned to live with his momma. Actually, I think the STILL lives with his momma. I on the other hand, have got a great job that pays for school and have made great friends that only help me to work for more. I'm confident that I can take whatever obstacle comes my way. I'm finally happy. I realized I didn't need anyone to make me happy. It was all in my power to begin with. Four years later, I'm still single and at times it gets lonely...but when Istart to feel down like that, I do something. Homework, read, work out..ya know?
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3 months ago i suddenly started getting panic attacks. i was a very strong and happy girl till that time.i left my job coz of my illness. i never thought in my life that a day will come in my life whn i hav to choose my family or my death.i chose my famly coz i never wish thm to suffer the pain if somthing happenes to me. but at the same time i cannot live such a miserable life i was so depressed. that was very hard time for me. but i never told any of my famly members wht i was going through.it took me almost 3 months to come back to my normal life.each day was like a night mare for me.worst thn death. thn i started praying to almighty Allah. only by his grace iam alive today. and not only alive but happy. i started doing namaz(muslim's praying). and now i can clearly see the diffrence, iam back to my normal life by Allah's grace.
i became much stronger after this.
i lost my younger son at the age of 27 in a road accident and so shaked that till after three years of his demise i have not come out of this sadness
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