Is there any cure for low self esteem?
i have terrble selfesteem and it holds me back is there any way to get over it?
Answer:
Accomplishments, big or small can help esteem. Start small and try to work your way up. Don't take the small accomplishments lightly and don't overblow the big ones.
It's not easy but nothing is. Be patient and take people's crap until you're the one calling the shots and then be firm but fair. People like to put others down to build themselves up, and that's because they have problems of their own.
And I hope that you can WADE through pasture muffins because the items on the shelf in the store say yes to you when you PAY FOR THEM! Not the most brilliant analogy I've ever heard ha ha.
And I've never understood how God is supposed to do anything for anybody. Pray to God but send the cheque to the pastor.
Throw down thy crutches and walk my friend, the power is within you and you alone.
Believe in God, Trust him and ask him for help. THAT is the cure :)
the best way to have good self esteem is to be esteemable acts.
well, know that you are worth alot, and talk to a therapist. They can help you with the underlying problems as to why you have no self esteem. Don't let noone tell you that you are not as good as they are, and that God made each one of us the same way. Each one of us is special in our own way and there is no 2 people the same. so everyone is equal...
The cure for it is high self-esteem, self-love and extreme happiness. Read the short article on the site below about enlightenment and how great you really are. That will help you and send you in the right direction.
Instead of thinking about your own problems, try thinking about the other persons problem.
Example:
Why would he care of how you look/act?
Are you happy with your self? If you are then feel the way you should. Not what others make you feel.
If someone looks down on you and makes you feel like ** then make them feel like **.
No one but you decides what is "cool" or "best" for yourself.
Theres no reason why you should feel bad and insecure about a problem someone finds in you.
yes! God can help you ,he is the lifter of our head and You are unique .There's only one you !!
you can choose to let it hold you back or take a baby step and do something you would normally not do...just think simple things .remember baby steps dear.
Tell your self I can do ALL things In Christ !
Helping others is often helpful to you as well as you're able to see how you're connected to others. Also doing your best in situations but releasing the results (recognizing that even if you did your best, you still have no control over the outcome) is helpful for many people.
Also, how do you feel about other people? Do you believe they are worthy of a healthy self esteem? Probably you do. Remember that you are a person, too, and just as worthy as everyone else.
Yes. Ask every single person you meet(of the opposite sex) for a kiss. You will get tons of "no" answers, but you will eventually get a "yes" Then you have won.
Life is all about being told "NO" You have to keep trying until you get a "yes". Compare this to going shopping. Every time you walk past an item at the store you are saying "no" to it. Eventually you will get to an item on a shelf that you will say "yes" to. This is how things work. People put their product out there knowing that they will get more "no" answers than "yes" answers. This is life and it works. You have to live your life this way. Do not be upset when you get a "no" because eventually you will get a "yes" answer.
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Answer:
Accomplishments, big or small can help esteem. Start small and try to work your way up. Don't take the small accomplishments lightly and don't overblow the big ones.
It's not easy but nothing is. Be patient and take people's crap until you're the one calling the shots and then be firm but fair. People like to put others down to build themselves up, and that's because they have problems of their own.
And I hope that you can WADE through pasture muffins because the items on the shelf in the store say yes to you when you PAY FOR THEM! Not the most brilliant analogy I've ever heard ha ha.
And I've never understood how God is supposed to do anything for anybody. Pray to God but send the cheque to the pastor.
Throw down thy crutches and walk my friend, the power is within you and you alone.
Believe in God, Trust him and ask him for help. THAT is the cure :)
the best way to have good self esteem is to be esteemable acts.
well, know that you are worth alot, and talk to a therapist. They can help you with the underlying problems as to why you have no self esteem. Don't let noone tell you that you are not as good as they are, and that God made each one of us the same way. Each one of us is special in our own way and there is no 2 people the same. so everyone is equal...
The cure for it is high self-esteem, self-love and extreme happiness. Read the short article on the site below about enlightenment and how great you really are. That will help you and send you in the right direction.
Instead of thinking about your own problems, try thinking about the other persons problem.
Example:
Why would he care of how you look/act?
Are you happy with your self? If you are then feel the way you should. Not what others make you feel.
If someone looks down on you and makes you feel like ** then make them feel like **.
No one but you decides what is "cool" or "best" for yourself.
Theres no reason why you should feel bad and insecure about a problem someone finds in you.
yes! God can help you ,he is the lifter of our head and You are unique .There's only one you !!
you can choose to let it hold you back or take a baby step and do something you would normally not do...just think simple things .remember baby steps dear.
Tell your self I can do ALL things In Christ !
Helping others is often helpful to you as well as you're able to see how you're connected to others. Also doing your best in situations but releasing the results (recognizing that even if you did your best, you still have no control over the outcome) is helpful for many people.
Also, how do you feel about other people? Do you believe they are worthy of a healthy self esteem? Probably you do. Remember that you are a person, too, and just as worthy as everyone else.
Yes. Ask every single person you meet(of the opposite sex) for a kiss. You will get tons of "no" answers, but you will eventually get a "yes" Then you have won.
Life is all about being told "NO" You have to keep trying until you get a "yes". Compare this to going shopping. Every time you walk past an item at the store you are saying "no" to it. Eventually you will get to an item on a shelf that you will say "yes" to. This is how things work. People put their product out there knowing that they will get more "no" answers than "yes" answers. This is life and it works. You have to live your life this way. Do not be upset when you get a "no" because eventually you will get a "yes" answer.
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