Will anyone help me with my stalker problem?
Okay where do I start. This woman has been stalking me for about a year now. At first, I did not mind it, now I a efin afraid of her. She has been following me around even more. Now she knows where I live, where I hang out, what kind of car I have, everything.She even somehow knows my cell phone number!She now had the teacher in one of my classes move her next to me. She is telling all of her friends we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I said it was not true and now she's saying I had sex with her. Since I am trying to disprove that, she has started cutting herself. She is threatning to commit suicide and make it look I was responsible. Now she finds out about my real girlfriend. Now she threatens if I am not her boyfriend she will call police on my family and girlfriend framing them for something they did not do. Now she has gone far enough saying she wants to kill my family and friends. She has reached the point of "Fatal Attraction" crazy to make a long story short. What should I do?
Answer:
Try to avoid her at all costs. Is it possible for you to get your class changed, explain your situation.
Keep notes on everything she does to you.
If possible get a restraining order, something that states that she cannot come within a certain amount of miles of your home, and that she must stay away from your place of employment.
Have nothing to do with this woman, do not to anything to provoke her.
take all the evidence that you have to the police and get a restraining order
HELP!! Thats what this girl needs. She is crying out for help.
Can you try talking to her parents? I would go over there and take your parents with you.
I would tell them you are going to press charges if this behavior doesn't stop. You may want to go as far as tell your teacher also what this girl is doing. You shouldn't have your life disrupted because of this girls psychological problems
You need some professional people to help you.
Confide in your parents and have them call the Marshall or Constable where you live.
Try to keep a friend with you and don't go out alone.
Good luck.
Break her knee. Tell no one. Tanya Harding works cheap.
Mr. King..I have a few comments..
1. have you had sex with her? Is she lying? If you had sex with her, it does not give her right to stalk her, but then you may have to resolve some issues with her.
2. have you alerted the school officials or the police about stalking? If not, you must do it promptly.
3. If she cuts herself or commits suicide, it is NOT your problem. It would be sad, but you can not help someone in this situation, except talking to the authorities, so that they can help them.
get a tape recording of her saying that b.s. for proof to the cops. mix up your schedule. get a family member or friend to trade vehicles w/you once in awhile so she has more vehicles to worry about. cell #'s can be changed. If she wants to say she had sex w/her let her just make sure your girlfriend knows the truth.Tell the teacher that moved her next to you you're not comfortable w/her there..tell'em she's trying to break you and your girl up. Find some differant places to hang out..go outta town once-in-awhile when she can't find you it'll drive her nuts. I've dealt w/ psycho gals before. If she's saying she wants to kill everybody seriously get her on tape and give it to the cops!!
Report it to the police...this could get dangerous.
Interesting enough, my stepson had that same problem with a "girlfriend" of his close to 20 years ago. My wife has told me about it a few times, and about how "scarey" she was, but I can't remember what she said they did about it. As a mental health practitioner with 20+ years experience, now retired, I can confidently tell you that I would find a lawyer you can feel can and will handle such a case. You need legal and law enforcement backup. I can remember that part of my wife's telling of her son's story of his "girlfriend", that they did contact the police about the girl. Whether, as freckles1063 is correct in saying that the girl needs help, help doesn't always mean sympathy and talking openly, and discussing "feelings" etc.. Sometimes "help" means confrontation, and you are NOT the person to handle that by yourself. She may be considered a member of "the weaker sex", but if you're smart, you won't fall for that trash at this time. She is a stalker by your own words. She has gone waaaayyyyyyyyyyy beyond giving you "loving attention", and she is a very serious physical threat to your real girlfriend, so, if you have any love and respect for yourself and your girlfriend, you'll find a lawyer you feel confident with, have a talk with them about her (which is often free for the first consultation) and proceed according to plan. If not, you're looking for some real sheeeeiiiiiitttttttttttttttttt... God Bless you.
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Answer:
Try to avoid her at all costs. Is it possible for you to get your class changed, explain your situation.
Keep notes on everything she does to you.
If possible get a restraining order, something that states that she cannot come within a certain amount of miles of your home, and that she must stay away from your place of employment.
Have nothing to do with this woman, do not to anything to provoke her.
take all the evidence that you have to the police and get a restraining order
HELP!! Thats what this girl needs. She is crying out for help.
Can you try talking to her parents? I would go over there and take your parents with you.
I would tell them you are going to press charges if this behavior doesn't stop. You may want to go as far as tell your teacher also what this girl is doing. You shouldn't have your life disrupted because of this girls psychological problems
You need some professional people to help you.
Confide in your parents and have them call the Marshall or Constable where you live.
Try to keep a friend with you and don't go out alone.
Good luck.
Break her knee. Tell no one. Tanya Harding works cheap.
Mr. King..I have a few comments..
1. have you had sex with her? Is she lying? If you had sex with her, it does not give her right to stalk her, but then you may have to resolve some issues with her.
2. have you alerted the school officials or the police about stalking? If not, you must do it promptly.
3. If she cuts herself or commits suicide, it is NOT your problem. It would be sad, but you can not help someone in this situation, except talking to the authorities, so that they can help them.
get a tape recording of her saying that b.s. for proof to the cops. mix up your schedule. get a family member or friend to trade vehicles w/you once in awhile so she has more vehicles to worry about. cell #'s can be changed. If she wants to say she had sex w/her let her just make sure your girlfriend knows the truth.Tell the teacher that moved her next to you you're not comfortable w/her there..tell'em she's trying to break you and your girl up. Find some differant places to hang out..go outta town once-in-awhile when she can't find you it'll drive her nuts. I've dealt w/ psycho gals before. If she's saying she wants to kill everybody seriously get her on tape and give it to the cops!!
Report it to the police...this could get dangerous.
Interesting enough, my stepson had that same problem with a "girlfriend" of his close to 20 years ago. My wife has told me about it a few times, and about how "scarey" she was, but I can't remember what she said they did about it. As a mental health practitioner with 20+ years experience, now retired, I can confidently tell you that I would find a lawyer you can feel can and will handle such a case. You need legal and law enforcement backup. I can remember that part of my wife's telling of her son's story of his "girlfriend", that they did contact the police about the girl. Whether, as freckles1063 is correct in saying that the girl needs help, help doesn't always mean sympathy and talking openly, and discussing "feelings" etc.. Sometimes "help" means confrontation, and you are NOT the person to handle that by yourself. She may be considered a member of "the weaker sex", but if you're smart, you won't fall for that trash at this time. She is a stalker by your own words. She has gone waaaayyyyyyyyyyy beyond giving you "loving attention", and she is a very serious physical threat to your real girlfriend, so, if you have any love and respect for yourself and your girlfriend, you'll find a lawyer you feel confident with, have a talk with them about her (which is often free for the first consultation) and proceed according to plan. If not, you're looking for some real sheeeeiiiiiitttttttttttttttttt... God Bless you.
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