What Response Are You Looking For If Not Anger?

I tend to be a happy person though I do have my ups and downs. I will smile even when upset so that my entire day does not become wasted with negative energy.

Why is it that some people feel compelled to wipe the smile off my face? And worse, when I do snap and become (temporarily) anger at an antagonizing person, why does that person feel hurt and act like the victim? Can these people truly be so dim-witted as to think their actions are one sided and their own meanness is justified? What exactly are they intending my response to be? Or anyone that person is mean to, not just me...

Answer:
some people have their self esteem built from the outside in instead of the inside out... those who measure their worth by comparing themselves to others usually need to put others down or "lessen" someone to feel better (or superior in some way)... it's a pitty but that is the only way they know how to feel better about themselves.
Some people it makes them happy to piss people off, I don't know why that is.
It's a sad thing, but some people love to be miserable and they want to make everyone else that way too. I would ignore that person and walk away. It's not worth getting upset over, and it's their problem, not yours.
Hence the expression "Misery loves company"
the only way to get rid of that is by getting rid of your temporary anger. it would make them realiaze ther follies. The same situation with me but now i simply dont mind the things of the people who dont mean a thing to me. let them say what they want. You cant stop stray dogs from barking
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Maybe you and the others that this person angers have information that (s)he needs. You are withholding it, and (s)he is trying to get it (and hates you, as well, for withholding it).
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