If I believe my Exwife is a Socio-path can I have her evaluated?
so that I can gain full custody of my kids. Please read my last question for full details. We share our kids every other week but she is not a good mother and they tell me that she yells constantly at them. they are 7&10
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Hi I read some of your past questions and boy it sounds like you’ve really had it rough. It sounds as though you are such a nice person, and yes it does sound like your ex wife is a bit of a sociopath certainly. But I don’t know if you can just have someone committed like that. I guess the most important thing is thinking of whats the best thing for your kids!! I know this will come in waves of hurt and then feeling better, for a while but you are doing great and talking to people so that’s good. Just try to concentrate all your energy on yourself and your kids and keep her and what shes doing with her life right out of your mind- it won’t do you any good to obsess over her at all- spend your time and energy on you!! Making your life fulfilled and your kids. Go out and meet new people- have a couple of flings and enjoy yourself. People like her DO get their karma and whats coming to them. Just have faith in that and love yourself enough to let it go and look towards your wonderful new life. Best of luck to you sweetheart.
iono.
maybe ur kids have just gotten punished for doing something wrong. and they resented that.
Only if you can prove she poses either an imminent danger to herself or others. Otherwise, no. Now if she's negligent or abusive you can report her to child services and if they find that she truly is abusive/negligent you can get custody. However, keep in mind that in both cases (referral to psychologist/psychiatrist or child services) you'll be fighting uphill since its common for exes to get back at each other via those channels.
Sounds to me like this is a question for your lawyer. Have you appealed your custody recently? Good luck
OK, i know you won't like to hear this but she is probably under a lot of stress too. If you believe that she is truly abusing your children then the best thing would be to turn her in. It is never a good situation for the children and sometime children tend to play the parents against each other, even in the best of situations. Please try to remain civil and do the right thing, not always the easy thing.
You need to get a lawyer! Start writing things down that happen when your kids are with your ex, what the kids say, anyone else that has seen her behavior, etc. so that you will have dates and examples to back you up. Get legal advise and go for it!
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Hi I read some of your past questions and boy it sounds like you’ve really had it rough. It sounds as though you are such a nice person, and yes it does sound like your ex wife is a bit of a sociopath certainly. But I don’t know if you can just have someone committed like that. I guess the most important thing is thinking of whats the best thing for your kids!! I know this will come in waves of hurt and then feeling better, for a while but you are doing great and talking to people so that’s good. Just try to concentrate all your energy on yourself and your kids and keep her and what shes doing with her life right out of your mind- it won’t do you any good to obsess over her at all- spend your time and energy on you!! Making your life fulfilled and your kids. Go out and meet new people- have a couple of flings and enjoy yourself. People like her DO get their karma and whats coming to them. Just have faith in that and love yourself enough to let it go and look towards your wonderful new life. Best of luck to you sweetheart.
iono.
maybe ur kids have just gotten punished for doing something wrong. and they resented that.
Only if you can prove she poses either an imminent danger to herself or others. Otherwise, no. Now if she's negligent or abusive you can report her to child services and if they find that she truly is abusive/negligent you can get custody. However, keep in mind that in both cases (referral to psychologist/psychiatrist or child services) you'll be fighting uphill since its common for exes to get back at each other via those channels.
Sounds to me like this is a question for your lawyer. Have you appealed your custody recently? Good luck
OK, i know you won't like to hear this but she is probably under a lot of stress too. If you believe that she is truly abusing your children then the best thing would be to turn her in. It is never a good situation for the children and sometime children tend to play the parents against each other, even in the best of situations. Please try to remain civil and do the right thing, not always the easy thing.
You need to get a lawyer! Start writing things down that happen when your kids are with your ex, what the kids say, anyone else that has seen her behavior, etc. so that you will have dates and examples to back you up. Get legal advise and go for it!
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