Anxiety about future!?

okay im 18 and will be going to college this fall. anyway thats not really the point. i just feel bad cause i dont have a boyfriend and havent since i was 16. i guess i have been more focused on school and work. but now im scared cause everytime i think about having a boyfriend i get alot of anxiety!! im scared to be in a relationship, but i do want to meet someone and get married oneday!! both my brothers have gf's and im the only one left without anyone. but i get so much anxiety! any tips?

Answer:
Perhaps your relationship at 16 is the source of your anxiety. If you truely are not ready for a relationship don't feel obligated to have one just because your brothers do. Enjoy the single life and there's nothing wrong with casual dating(especially during your college years).
Don't worry about it. You are still young. You won't have anxiety when you meet the right person and college is the perfect place. You'll be fine.
ur kinda like me except i`ve had boyfriends. when i do have a boyfriend, i get all wierded out & think that having a boyfriend sucks. you should just try to date!
hehe aww its going to be okay. I understand how you feel. take deep breaths. College is so much better than HS its easier and ppl are more mature. You will meet someone right and try taking it slow, see how it feels. Maybe you have fear of commitment or you dont want to get hurt. Its gong to be okay. everyone finds someone. :)
You have a lot of new and exciting things to look forward to this fall by going to college. That's what your focus should be now. You will meet lots of new people including guys and I'm sure you won't have any trouble finding dates. Just be sure to focus on your future goals and get through school before worrying about getting married and having a family. You are too young to be worried about that right now. It will happen in time. Don't rush into anything just because you want to have a boyfriend. Get to know people first and enjoy being young and alive! You don't need a boyfriend for that!
Mr right sometimes takes a little more time because ..well there aren't all that many...

Just be cool and feel comfortable not only saying yes because you want a B/F... Don't waste your time with guys you are not totally down for.

Guys like girls who go after what they want so...If you meet someone you like then pounce them.

Good luck knowing some day you will experience true love.

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