Can you be a B*i*t*c*h when you've a mind to or are you sweetness?
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Depends who I'm comfortable with.
Those who truly know and love me know i am not perfect and can be a b/i/t/c/h.
Those who are just acquaintances/newish friend only see a polite me.
That's the truth.
Aren't women bitches by nature?
I can be a b*tch.
I can be both.
I can change from Sweetness to B**** in 1.3 seconds
If someone steps on my toes or gets me riled i can be a bi#ch
both i suppose, but yes i can be a B***h when i need to be
Sweetness and light. Find a female without that streak and you will be a good in.
I can be a total b*i*t*c*h when i want, especially when im hurt or offended.
Sweetness and light? Definitely not! But I find no practical reason to be a b---- either. It accomplishes nothing of value and just stirs up bad feelings of low self-esteem later.
I doubt that anyone succeeds in being what they want to be ALL the time, but most of the time I try to just be real (no cloying, insincere sweetness and no affected b-tchyness) and treat others with consideration and respect - no more or no less than I would expect from them in return.
This usually works for me. I am reasonably well liked and respected among all the social circles in my present lifestyle, and I don't have to deal with unwanted guilt feelings.
Mostly I'm sweetness and light.
B-i-t-c-h could be categorised into the world of Relational Aggression - a hidden world of bullying most commonly among girls.
Everybody has been bullied or been bullies sometimes in their life. Same goes for relational aggression. This is behaviour that most people grow out of eventually.. yet some remain socially challenged in adult years, or do not have much social skills and keep have difficulties in relationships and interactions.
Some features of relational aggression are e.g. social exclusion, back stabbing, talking behind others back.
- Mean Girls (the movie - Lindsay Lohan) is pretty much all about Relational Aggression.
From wikipedia:
Relational aggression is psychological (social/emotional) aggression between people in relationships. Relational aggression is a form of aggression where the group is used as a weapon to assault others and others' relationships. It uses lies, secrets, betrayals and other dishonest tactics to destroy or damage the relationships and social standing of others in the group. Also known as covert bullying[1], social aggression [2], "female bullying"[3], family bullying or serial bullying[4], it is a covert form of aggression, used by both men and women in relationships. It is less well-known than physical forms of aggression and therefore much more difficult to detect.
Although modern understanding of relational aggression arose from the study of cliques of girls in school, and despite the fact that the term "female bullying" is often used synonymously with "relational aggression", relational aggression is seen at times in women and men of all ages in spousal, familial, sexual, social, community, political, and religious settings. [5]
Research seems to indicate differences in the types of relational aggression typical to children of different ages. Younger children are more likely to use direct forms of relational aggression, e.g., "You can't come to my birthday party." In contrast, older children are more likely to use more covert methods of harm, e.g., by making up demeaning stories about the victim and passing them around at school or other environments where social standing is important to the victim.
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