I have had so many bad relationships - I have experienced all types of wrong men -?
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You will get to a point where you will say to yourself ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. And this turning point looks like it is happening now for you. Do not appear desperate in that you commit too soon to someone in case he gets away. Act as tho you have lots of choices and you are content to be without a man while you are looking for a GOOD ONE. Men are mostly brought up by women, so why there are so many hopeless ones, I don't know. Even Princess Di couldn't find one decent one to settle down with. If you want to get married and have children, and you are near the end of your childbearing years, you have to have a good job to be able to cover the costs if the marriage fails, and you have to have good coping skills. Be prepared to bring the children up alone. If you can face being single a long time with no children, you could possibly juggle six lovers because of your difficulty in getting what you want in one man.
(1) Get a rich one to take you out to lovely places.
(2) A reliable one who will zoom in and rescue you when you have emergencies, like your car breaks down at 2am in a bad area. He should also be a good handyman round the house.
(3) A beautiful young handsome one (usually penniless) who worships you and gives you massages and spends all day in bed with you eating the doggy bags from the 5 star restaurants and the bottles of booze the rich one leaves.
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(4) An out of towner who zooms through and takes you to his next destination or on an exotic holiday that the rich one doesn't take cos he is a workaholic or it is too inconvenient being unplugged from his oxygen machine.
(5) A powerful man, who will give you security in knowing that if you get into any trouble, like parkiing tickets or a dead body in your boot, he will fix things for you in no time. All he wants from you in return is something like a retreat to go to when he has to get away for a couple of hours, lying in the bath while you chant YOU ARE THE GREATEST LIVING BEING IN THE UNIVERSE and then you feed and water him and listen to him and send him on his way.
(6) Make up your own recipe for your 6th.
Around age fifty there will suddenly be a flood of men on the market who married at 25 and whose kid/s have just got married. This is when their wives leave them. At least these men have been housetrained. They hardly ever walk mud into the house and by the tenth year of marriage they have learnt to hang up their wet towel. They will be paunchy and bald and in questionable health but always available if you are lonely.
When it is time for you to live in a retirement village there will be ten women for every man and the women with a waistline get snapped up first so make sure you have kept up your pole dancing classes. Some women lose interest in men by this time but the saying goes IF YOU USE IT, YOU WON'T LOSE IT, so you might still be interested in male company then.
Sometimes you attract the wrong men if you are insecure with yourself. Try taking time to get to know you and love you. Think of the qualities that you want in a man. Think of the qualities you possess.
Well sweetie hate to say this but you are not going to find perfect in any of us guys. Don't you know that we all are dogs?
Words are very powerful. The words we speak, will open or close doors for us. If we dress modestly and talk promiscuously, we will attract promiscuous partners. If we talk decently, yet dress promiscuously, we will attract promiscuous partners. However, if we dress modestly and we speak decently, we will attract decent partners. Our words have as much impact as our image. Our minds also play an equally important role when it comes to picking a partner.
Think of the perfect man you would like to marry. Not anyone you know, just your minds picture of the perfect marriage partner.Now clear your thoughts.. Now I want you to picture, (in your mind) the man you would most like to spend a steamy weekend with..Odds are, the two images were not the same. The mind and the heart are not always in agreement. The things the heart wants, are feelings from within us. The things the mind wants, are things we see and hear everyday, the things we desire or lust for. Try listening to your heart more and I guarantee you will hook up with the guy who truly loves you and cares for you.
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