I'm a guy he's a guy and we're friends. I fell for him. We're both gay?
He called every other day for months and we became friends. Two nights ago he dropped a bombshell when he said he had a lover of 12 years. They have an open relationship. I was so upset by the news that he was committed elsewhere that I suddenly realized I am infatuated/in love/ have a huge crush and seeing him as a friend isn't good as long as I have these feelings - not fair on me and not really honest of me either .
He hasn't been making a play for me and has been simply friendly
Last night I sent him the following text:
"I have fallen for you and I have been struggling with this for a couple of weeks which maybe isn't a good thing. I would like to be your friend when this passes"
Haven't heard back.
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Is he so cute and handsome? smart brain?
if that way, you might be hmmm...Bi or Gay...not sure...
But it can be like my case, I used to feel that but I feel in friendship.. I have friend..he is a guy..very smart..very cute...very rich...very good attitude...almost perfect...he is so friendly and always call me " hey Best friend"...I fall for him too...I just want him to be my best mate ever and wanna care about him much...and I thought I was a gay too...But I am sure I was not since I fall for my ex-girlfriend.
You should not let him know your feeling...It makes thing worse.
Try to meet him and act like nothing has happened. but if he asked you about this, tell him that you was a fool...and try to converse with him and cheer your friendship
yeh you are
your defin. homosexual/gay
sorry bro
If they have an open relationship, if he is interested in you, and you are ok with him having someone else, then go for it. Don't bother with texting if you want to pursue it, call him. Tell him that you understand his open relationship and want to know if he is interested in you. But be prepared in case he is not interested in you that way, so you aren't surprised and act in a way to embarrass yourself.
I have no idea what your question is. But I support the gay community. I'm liberal, I'm married in a bi-racial relationship and my wife is pregnant with our first child (YAY!) You never should of sent the text message, especially if the other guy isn't gay (which you never mentioned). But I assume he is gay. The funny thing is same sex relationships work the same way as "normal" relationships. He probably is confused and he backed off... not to mention that he is too scared to contact you.
All you can do is NOT call him. Maybe you are totally gay... maybe you aren't... maybe you are on the fence and can go either way... who cares thats not for us to decide except for you. Let it go if you guys lose contact and hopefully you'll be able able to find the truth about your sexuality.
Protect yourself either way (you know what i mean).
Yup!two guy with two loose hollow!
i'm a from philippines,your a guy but have fallen to a guy?maybe your not really a gay...in our country you might be called "silahis"-which means that your not actually a gay,this word refers to the state of having a same affection to both gender ...your not gay if the heart of man is still in you cause your still attracted sill tto to girls,but not a real man of having affection to common sex and you are a 'Silahis'.that's it.
If you haven't heard back - chances are he's not into you or he might not have received that text message. You mentioned that he has a lover - male or female?
Remember this point: you cannot force someone to love you, just like the way you cannot force yourself to love a bypass stranger. So I'd say, accept the fact and move on with your life. This world is huge - there are other people for you to meet.
Rather than playing this painful guessing game of whether "he/she loves me he/she loves me not" - why don't you ring him up and ask if you could meet him somewhere because you have something you tell him". Tell him how you feel in a serious way etc. If he rejected you - you need to accept the truth and get on with your life. Even if he rejected you, you can always polish your answer by telling him that even if you two can't be lovers - you hope you two could still be friends. However, if he laughs, then he's a complete moron - and he's not worth it as a friend after all.
Otherwise - bury this secret in your heart and don't tell him about it as this might destroy your friendship with him - and wished him well, but still you have to move on.
When I was to be in high school, I'd always ring up to my best friend after school to talk about homework etc That doesn't mean that I liked that person - I ring to him, because he was the only person who I felt comfortable to talk to about school stuff - nothing more.
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