I feel alone.?
-Misunderstood 13 year old-
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you can talk to me! I'll be here for you!
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When there's nowhere else to turn
All your bridges have been burned
Feels like you've hit rock bottom
Don't give up it's not the end
Open up your heart again
When you feel like no one
Understands where you are
Someone loves you even when you don't think so don't you know you got
Me and Jesus by your side through the fight you will never be alone on your own you got me and jesus
After all that we've been through
Be now you know i've doubted too
But everytime my head was in my
Hands you siad to me
Hold on to what we got
This is worth any cost so
Make the most of life
That's borrowed
Love like there's no tomorrow
Someone loves you even when you don't think so don't you know you got
Me and Jesus by your side through the fight you will never be alone on your own you got me and jesus
Do a barrow roll.
You should definitely express these feelings to your parents or a trusted adult like a teacher. These feelings are normal, but definitely not ones that you should keep inside.
It's a snowball effect. The more depressed you become, the less confident, more self conscious you will become.
None wants to be with someone who is sad all the time. A smile makes everyone beautiful. Remember this everytime you do anything - your confidence will grow, and you will become more fun to be with. The popularity will follow.
u r a loaner and have no friends
awwwwwwwwww, your missing a Best Friend..
a boyfriend really u should try it i sorta felt the same way before i ever got a girlfriend find somebody thats on ur level of thinking that u have something in common with then u won't feel alone =)
Remember your still gowning.Am 34 years I just know found myself.Some people grow in different times.Take it one day at a time.
Hi, I know how you feel. I feel alienated and unwanted at my school, I see a therapist. It really does wonders for me.
it's the phase where you turn into a teenager.. it's normal..
Aww sweetie!! I have been there and it sucks. Have you found God? That may be missing. He can make life a lot better if you truley believe! You have to be the one to find it! Good luck hun!!
Someone you can trust is who you should talk to. I'm sorry about your situation.. If you have negative thoughts on life, it'll always be a miserable one. Don't look at it that way. Also, just because boys won't ask you out doesn't mean you're a bad girl or anything, just means they are immature, and couldn't handle someone so smart :) Life will get better, like I mentioned, try talking to someone you trust.
Goodluck, and I hope you feel better!
I'm guessing that you are thinking too much about it . Maybe you have some extra time on your hands and perhaps you need to be with other kids your age .
Try a favorite sport, like martial arts / ballet or something that will make you feel better because you are thinking too much about everything that will rain on your parade .
Hun, everyone feels alone at times.you are at a weird age...in fact people are always at a weird age. Right now...DO NOT WORRY ABOUT BOYS! they are immature, even at my age. People that you can always talk to and depend on are going to have to be your family.for they have no choice but to love you
Just wait. This is just a phase, we've all been through it.
People change, but people also come around. Nobody understands you because you don't trust anybody enough to confide in them all of your secrets. But open your eyes a little wider, I'm sure you have a very good friend, or a cousin you can talk to. If you want, you can also talk to any of your parents. That may sound a little lame, but when push comes to shove your parents may have the best advice for you.
Since it's summer maybe they could enroll you into summer activities where if you were to act approachable you could make a lot of friends! Give things a chance, and you won't feel so lonely.
Forget the boys, if they don't ask you out, then you don't want them either! High school relationships rarely last anyways, so you're not missing out. If you want something real, then you gotta wait for it to find you
Wow. It's like reading something I wrote when I was 13. What you're feeling is actually very common. 13 is probably the hardest age to go through, because everything is changing. You start figuring out what you want out of life a lot more, but it doesn't feel like anyone is on the same page as you. Running away isn't the answer, because you're going to feel the same wherever you go. Stick it out, because it will change. I was in a rut until I reached about 16. I was in high school (which makes a big difference because you have the chance to meet a lot of different, older people) and that's when I met one of my best friends. Don't even worry about relationships right now. I know it sucks to be alone, but a relationship with any boy your age is going to be kind of ridiculous anyway. Until you find someone you can confide in and talk to, I suggest writing. My journal was my best friend, and still is to a certain extent. That way you can get out everything you're feeling and you won't feel the need to have to hold anything back.
Hang in there. It'll get better. Trust me.
Welcome to adolescence. A lot of kids your age feel like that, if it makes you feel any better. In time, you'll find those people. Don't be so worried, these feelings will change into more positive feelings. Also, you're young! There will be many opportunities to find that kind of person/people.
Being a younger teenager can be stressful. It can be a hard time, and quite honestly you couldn't pay me to be 12-15 again. I think the problem is you might not understand yourself yet, that's why you might feel like no one understands you. But in a few years a LOT of things will change about yourself, such as morals, views on life, even your body! I am a completely different person that I was when I was thriteen and that was only six years ago. This is a hard time in life, it really is. Growing into your skin and understanding yourself is one of the most difficult and longest journies in your life. Just remember what seems like a big deal now, might not even cross your mind then. And also, dating for you at this life stage isn't a huge deal, because the risk of starting sexual activity this young get higher and higher everyday, and you truely need to love yourself before you can love anyone else physically, mentally, or emotionally. Live life to the fullest, explore new people and places but always remember to be safe. Stay out of drugs and alcohol, it really ISN'T worth it in the end, trust me I know. And don't ever forget when you go out there is power in numbers (groups) be safe and make sure you experience as much as you possibly can..learn different cultures.. and don't exclude any good people out of your life, nerdy, white, black, asian.. you never know who you might miss out on. Be safe, and go be happy! We live once.. make this one shot your best! I hope you ease into your own skin and you can find happiness within yourself! God bless!
You're missing the picture.
You're thirteen and it's a hormonal, confusing time of your life. This, too, will pass. Find something you enjoy doing and dive full in! Art? Acting? Sports? You will have a better chance of meeting someone interesting to share your time and conversations with. Feel free to daydream of places you'd like to be someday --- it will be no time at all before the world unfolds to you and you'll be off to discover those daydreams for yourself. I guarantee it. Teenage life, thank goodness, only goes around once. Inspire yourself, dream and CREATE ART to pass time and I hope you meet new friends : )
you have to understand people first then people can understand you. when people understand you they called friends. and friends know you and understand you well, they called best friends, and you must know that it's very difficult to find one.
try to understand them harder. i'm sure they will understand you.
Well Azooga you can change your avatar for a start! That might sound silly, or mean but it reflects some of your attitude. When I see it I see a mindset that rebuffs any sunlight. That is to say anything bright and happy.
Change your attitude darlin. You will have to. You have just hit puberty. That is a thick wall to get through and you are going to need a lot of help. Body and brain are going to run rampant in growth, you're emotions are now on the top of the first hill in a roller coaster ride! MAKE IT FUN.
Attitude is a lot ...it give you friends or make you enemies.
So : start cultivating good friends and make a determined effort to get through the next decade with your spirit intact sweetie. Because the teenage years are as hard as they are fun. But you decide which one you want to dominate. The hardships, or the joys.
Now is the time to start working on your decision.
Fyodor Dostoyesky once said, "Pain and suffering are inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have very great sadness on Earth."
You speak as if you are looking back on your life, which is understandable for an intelligent person such as yourself. However, limiting your view to what could have been or hoping for things you don't believe will happen is bound to be depressing, particularly at your age. You need to realize that the most important person to please is yourself. You're not likely to find deep meaning in a conversation with another 13 year old, and there's not much point in getting down on yourself about it. I think it speaks positively about you that your peers don't understand you, because the people who fit in during middle school and high school often don't amount to much.
It might help you to find some good books, especially classics. Reading is a way to connect with the truly great minds from across the centuries. A lot of really fantastic people struggled to find their identity early in life, and it means nothing when some stupid guy won't ask you out.
I had a very similar experience to what you're describing. I grew up in a very small community where I wasn't well liked or understood, and there was nothing to do about it and no escape. Just like you describe, I had a difficult time dealing with my surrounding situation. Eventually, I got a chance to go to college early, so I left high school behind and went to a college about 1,500 miles away. It worked out really well, and now I am in a position to choose where I want to go from here. In the long term, high school doesn't mean much aside from where it allows you to go to college.
Things will get better for you, but maybe not soon. About all you can do is establish who you want to be, and then let nothing stand in your way. Prepare yourself for the future, and then you'll be ready when opportunities arise - and know that they will. Good luck!
do you have a bestfriend you can talk to?
you can e-mail me if you need a friend.
♥ Awwwwww That's So Adorable!! ('',)
Anyways Listen;
♥ You're at a very vulnerable age where life seems unfair and it feels like you have no place in this world. But It's Ok to feel that way. Forget guys! There is always one out there but let him come to you. Dont waste your time thinking about when the next guy's gonna approach you or what you are doing wrong.
♥ Its a tough world out there so you just keep on living life to the fullest. because this is just the beginning. Just do things that make you happy and appreciate every little thing you get. Because its likely that something you get in life, is something someone else in this world is wishing for.
♥ You're missing a friend. Just talk to people. You can message me if you like but i advise you to talk to people that are close.
♥ Do something with yourself to make yourself happy. Happiness wont come to you. And there's no limit to it. So if you want it, then go out and get it. Because more happiness may come with it! And you never know..it might be true happiness!
♥ Life's full of suprises! Even if you dont feel like someones gonna suprise you with happiness or friendship. How do you know??! its a suprise!!
♥ Now smile =D ♥
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