Spankophilia?

Hmmmm so I'm discovering this new little thing about myself... I'm a little embarassed about it but can't seem to quit thinking about it... I am afraid I may be classified as a type of spankophile... Is this weird? Am I alone? Should I turn the other direction and run for my life? Or embrace this? Is it possible that you have this trait when you are young, and don't realize it's a "thing" of yours until adulthood? Is this healthy? I don't think my fiance is very much into this. Should I push the issue? So many questions, so many desires.

Answer:
Is it weird? NO, different...but not weird.
Are you alone. No there are many many people out there, men and women who enjoy being spanked.
Run for your life? NO, EMBRACE it!
Is it possible that its been there all the time and you are just discovering it. YES.
Is it healthy? It's healthier to embrace it and enjoy it than to think you are weird and that something is wrong with you. Push the issue? Now that's a tough one...I think it will depend on how MUCH you enjoy it and want to experience it...and if there is a big difference between how much you both enjoy it and want to do it...perhaps its a sign that you should be enjoying this with someone else??

I hope this helps you!
I recognize you; changing your name won't help
I never forget an avatar lmao :)~
There's nothing wrong with it.
It's definitely not main stream pleasure, but there are other people who enjoy spankings, sexual punishment etc.

If you have this deep craving.Now's the time to make sure you and he are on the same page, otherwise are you willing to live without acting on this fantasy if he's not down with it?
No it's not crazy.you sound like you want to explore your submissive side.submissives crave being spanked and punished. Best wishes ;)
hun, that is totally not sexy, like me!! this is why I'm hot; i'm hot cuz i'm fly, you ain't cuz you're not, this is why, this is why, this is why I'm hot!
Don'tcha wish your girlfriend was hot like me?!

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