Which is Worse: Someone being Furious with you, OR Someone being Disappointed in you?
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Dissapointment for sure.
Dissapointment is usually when someone puts they're trust in you and you let them don. Or you are irresponsible and do something that people wouldnt think you would do.
If someone is dissapointed in you, try to prove them wrong or give them a reason not to be dissapointed. :]
disappointed
Disappointment... because they were counting on you and you let them down... I don't care if they're mad... but disappointment just hurts.
I like someone to be furious with me, it makes for great sex
I would say someone being disappointed in you. Disappointment is more global, it means that you have been found wanting as a human being. If someone is furious at you it could be incident specific. Further, if someone is furious with you it often means that they love and care about you and thus assign high emotional value to what you do.
Totally depends on your own opinion of that person. The people I hold in the highest regard wouldn't show fury, they would only express disappointment. So I guess that is the bottom line.
Definately disappointed is worse: You have been a let down, hard to get passed it. I am harder on myself.
Furious: They usually get over it, it could be your fault or not. usually this is shorter lived.
disappointed. you have let someone down.
Well, if someone is furious with you then they are probably disappointed as well, but, if someone is disappointed it does not necessarily mean they are furious too. I would probably choose furious because then I could also deal with the disappointment on a more recognizable and open arena.
Furious because they are less likely to listen to reason.
definitely some being disappointed in you. When someone is mad at you, you usually act angry at the back, but you don't feel bad about it because they are acting like that too. when someone is disappointed in you, its like they are looking down at you and they think of you less highly. and you get this horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach because someone thinks of you in such a low way. it's not like you can do anything about it either. you can't change a persons opinion. I know from experience that it hurts more for someone to be disappointed in you then for someone to be mad at you. Sometimes you feel like puking when some is really disappointed in you, if there is an extreme enough situation that they are disappointed in you as a person. It hits more to home when someone is disappointed in you. It makes you feel awful when someone like your parents don't think your smart enough or prettty enough. Say if you fail a mid-term. what would hurt more, your parents yelling at you and grounding you or them saying i am disappointed in your poor grades. and you know what they're thinking too. 'why is she so stupid. I thought she was smarter than that. her siblings did so much better in school. Why couldn't she be more like her siblings.' When someone is disappointed in you, you tend to dwell on what they think of you. Of what type or person you are, and how smart you are, and generally how you act as a person. Basically when someone is disappointed in you it sucks a million times worse then when someone is mad at you, because, i think, people mean what they say much more when they're disappointed then when they were mad and in the heat of the moment.
When someone is furious at you, you know you messed up. You know that maybe you hurt them, maybe you failed them but that eventually it'll blow over and they'll stop being so mad.
When someone is disappointed in you, you still know that you messed up. The difference is that they trusted you, they belived in you and you still hurt them. It's easy to brush off anger, saying that they'll have forgotten about it in a week or something, but you know that they'll never forget how they trusted you.
Someone being disappointed in you.
Because anger passes but disappointments linger on.
depends if you diserve it?
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