I'm 14 theres these two 13 year old guys WHY AM I MORE ATTRACTED TO THE ONE THATS A JERK?

The nice one I can talk to without getting all nervous and he's never made me jealous or anything! The other one only sometimes pays attention to me but when he does I'm on cloud nine, he's also hugged me before while the other one hasnt even touched me. This one makes me jealous a lot and is more of a prep so why is it that I'm attracted to him and only like the nice one as a friend? grrr It makes no sense...

Answer:
this will happen many times in your life.

And you gotta know that if anything happens between you and this "bad boy" your attracted to, you WILL LOSE the good guy.

Good guys can only be stepped on and abused.


As for not touching you, he could be, dare I say, RESPECTFUL!

Talk to the nice guy, ask him how he feels about you. Maybe he does want to be just friends.






You gotta realize, the younger the better, that the nice guys leave, and they don't come back. Once you break that trust, you cannot ever reforge it.
Nature honey. Go with the flow.
welcome to the world of dating!! us women tend to fall for the jerks before the good guys...ever heard the saying good guys finish last?
it makes sense... your not alone!
girls are more attracted to guys who provide a challenge... getting the guy to notice them!
unfortunateley, sometimes relationships with nice guys get a little boring.
When a bad boy pays attention to me, it makes me feel good about myself!!
that's life... it's sad..but try...

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