Get out of the house?
i pretty much just sit in the house all day and clean and watch tv . im very unattractive and dont feel comfortable in normal social settings. any suggestions on what i could do to get out of the house?
Answer:
i am pretty sure u look just fine! itt sounds liek u have slow self esteem u may want to get some help with that! Try joing a youth group that has a very open group of people so you wont have to feel the need to impress. Just try and get out there i am sure u'll do fine. ALSO, YOU,no matter what anyone says, ARE BEAUTIFUL!
I am not very fond of crowded social places... what about taking a road trip to a lake or reservoir and checking out a trail or something. I find that early in the morning during the week these places aren't real crowded and the peace is nice. Of course, your results may vary depending on where you live. I am not in a very big urban area... so I don't have too much competition for the areas.
Getting out of the house it secondary .First you need to find your self. Who you truly are. I suggest reading Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta PRabhupada-tells the purpose of human life and how to be truly happy. go to harekrishnatemple.com for info and if you want to read on line go to asitis.com Will change your inside so you can go outside. If you can, do some gardening. (plant flowers)It is good for your health and mind.
Are you actually very unattractive or do you just think you are? I find that most people who think they are unattractive are actually just modest. It does affect your feelings in social settings though. My suggestion would be to continue your education by taking a few classes at your local community college. I'll bet anything that once people get to know you they like you no matter what you look like.
You could start by starting a walking regimen.
You could go to the library and browse for awhile or walk around a mall.
You can do volunteer work, like read with a student at an elementary school.
Some how find a way to get involved and take meeting people one step at a time. You don't have to be attractive to do these things or anything for that matter. Just like yourself.
First, what you think about yourself could be wrong.
May be, you are neglecting yourself because you don't meet with people as you should.
I know that the social side in people's life could be, sometimes, deceiving, but still you can try:
- To volunteer
- To enroll in a school
- To go in a Fitness Center
P.S.: I advise you to read some books about self-confidence, it will surely help.
Good luck to you.
Go outside to a beautiful park or maybe a school near by your house and just walk around or run around the track, excercising makes you feel great (endorphins) and if you do it enough, you'll see results and you might feel better about your appearance. And it also gives you energy, also when you are around you'll see other people being active, walking their dogs, and hearing the birds chirping...that always cheers me up because I love dogs and animals. Also it's nice to go during the late afternoon to evening because it's cooler and you can also see the sunset.
I can understand where you are coming from because I feel the same way you do but I always make time to go work out at the park and play tennis and I always feel great after. Just make sure you eat healthy and drink a lot of water because it will help you have energy and it will help your mind and body over all.
Going outside and getting some air is always a good pick me up.
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Answer:
i am pretty sure u look just fine! itt sounds liek u have slow self esteem u may want to get some help with that! Try joing a youth group that has a very open group of people so you wont have to feel the need to impress. Just try and get out there i am sure u'll do fine. ALSO, YOU,no matter what anyone says, ARE BEAUTIFUL!
I am not very fond of crowded social places... what about taking a road trip to a lake or reservoir and checking out a trail or something. I find that early in the morning during the week these places aren't real crowded and the peace is nice. Of course, your results may vary depending on where you live. I am not in a very big urban area... so I don't have too much competition for the areas.
Getting out of the house it secondary .First you need to find your self. Who you truly are. I suggest reading Bhagavad Gita as it is By Bhaktivedanta PRabhupada-tells the purpose of human life and how to be truly happy. go to harekrishnatemple.com for info and if you want to read on line go to asitis.com Will change your inside so you can go outside. If you can, do some gardening. (plant flowers)It is good for your health and mind.
Are you actually very unattractive or do you just think you are? I find that most people who think they are unattractive are actually just modest. It does affect your feelings in social settings though. My suggestion would be to continue your education by taking a few classes at your local community college. I'll bet anything that once people get to know you they like you no matter what you look like.
You could start by starting a walking regimen.
You could go to the library and browse for awhile or walk around a mall.
You can do volunteer work, like read with a student at an elementary school.
Some how find a way to get involved and take meeting people one step at a time. You don't have to be attractive to do these things or anything for that matter. Just like yourself.
First, what you think about yourself could be wrong.
May be, you are neglecting yourself because you don't meet with people as you should.
I know that the social side in people's life could be, sometimes, deceiving, but still you can try:
- To volunteer
- To enroll in a school
- To go in a Fitness Center
P.S.: I advise you to read some books about self-confidence, it will surely help.
Good luck to you.
Go outside to a beautiful park or maybe a school near by your house and just walk around or run around the track, excercising makes you feel great (endorphins) and if you do it enough, you'll see results and you might feel better about your appearance. And it also gives you energy, also when you are around you'll see other people being active, walking their dogs, and hearing the birds chirping...that always cheers me up because I love dogs and animals. Also it's nice to go during the late afternoon to evening because it's cooler and you can also see the sunset.
I can understand where you are coming from because I feel the same way you do but I always make time to go work out at the park and play tennis and I always feel great after. Just make sure you eat healthy and drink a lot of water because it will help you have energy and it will help your mind and body over all.
Going outside and getting some air is always a good pick me up.
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