If i'm insecure about myself how will it show physically?
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It shows in the way you walk, talk, body language, taking charge vs sitting back etc. I saw an episode of oprah where a lady was talking about how the way we feel internally attracts people more than what we look like externally and she is so right. Some people are perpetually attracted to, for example, alcoholics despite the fact that these alcoholic may not have shown any signs of this tendency on the first few meetings. It's really amazing.
Here's my advise, instead of just looking confident why don't you become confident. Here's how: There are 2 important premises that should govern your internal dialogue and references to yourself:
You are perfect just the way that you are
You try to maximize your abilities to reach your full potential
It takes a while to develop this mindset but replace all negative references to yourself with positive references. Ignore the negatives to a situation and look at the positives eg: instead of i am a dumbass i stumbled on my words while giving a speech in class; your thought should be: I am brave and courageous. I went up and gave a speech in class even though i was very nervous and because of this brave act, I will get increasingly comfortable giving speeches with practice. Both statements are accurate but only the latter will empower you and reaffirm your good qualities.
You wouldn't be as bold. No spur the moment times. You would talk less and you would just overall seem less confident
Your body language will show how insecure you are about yourself
Grooming, Body Gestures(The Way You Walk Tells Alot About You)
It can "show" in many ways: lack of eye contact, quiet, reserved speech, your posture, lack of enthusiasm, vanity, being "boisterous" or argumentative, being socially withdrawn...nervous laughter.and many others. Just be yourself, and don't worry so much about the impression you think you're making.
They can since from certain body language. Such as looking at your feet when you walk, not talking. Overall probably just coming off as a boring and shy person.
That's a good question, I'm working on my insecurities myself
People will know through actions, depending on the people. Some people don't see it, others do.
Another guy (mostly a "pretty boy"-type) is looking or talking to your girl, and you react in someway to it-insecurity
You're not comfortable sharing feelings, emotions, hugs,(maybe I love you's) with another guy (in an innocent, friendly, brotherly-love way), and/or not comfortable complimenting another guy either about physical appearance, or anything else, and you let it be known of that fact-insecurity
No one will know unless you let it be known, whether its what you say or what you do
You put others down to lift yourself up, basically towards someone that is, in someway, better than you, or that you feel is better than you.-insecurity
Just simply meeting a person for the first time won't give that vibe, but your actions may and will quickly show who you are.
BODY LANGUAGE SAYS MUCH MORE THAN WORDS EVER COULD.YOUR posture shows if ur confident or not. If u are not able to make eye contact it shows u r running on empty emotionally.Crossed arms r a sign of unwillingness to listen or to be open to new ideas.Twirling your hair while talking with someone your attracted to is a sign of flirtation. Raising both eyebrows when a man sees a woman is a universal sign of sexual attraction.Being overly quiet not feeling u have anything to contribute to a conversation shows insecurity .Being overly sensitive and possesive is also a sign.
Alright chief. You've read everyones answer, but now it is time to listen to me only. First of all, what are you so insecure about? You are just you and you can't change that so just get use to it. Second of all every man has weaknesses, no one is perfect. You have to figure out what are your strengths and what are your weaknesses. For example, if you are weak, then it is time to lift weights, if you are dumb then you need to read a book, if you are fat then you need to go on a diet. Be honest with yourself. Better yourself, learn how to play an instrument, take some martial arts classes, get in better shape, go back to school and earn more money. Do things that will make you feel good, something you can be proud of like achieve something. People will feel the vibe if you are positiv, upbeat and happy..
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