Do you hate watching people enjoying life, while 'they' watch others suffer?
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..If you hate it, then don't do it.
This sounds like choosing negative emotions, such as envy and self-pity. Indulging in this sort of thing will get you nowhere.
It's erroneous to assume that everyone who enjoys life does so at the expense of people who are suffering. Life isn't that simple. I think if you knew the facts, it would surprise you. There will always be people who are "in a better place" than you are. Most of the time they didn't get there by chance. Life presents us with daily, unpredictable challenges. Everyone has to do the hard things, the right things consistently to deal with these challenges. No one is immune.
The best we can do is work on our own lives. Set our own goals. Work hard to achieve them. Deal with the challenges. Make our own lives, so we can have our own moments of enjoyment.
We, as individuals, cannot solve all of the world's problems.
However, we can certainly try our best to become productive and contributing citizens in our own right and offer a helping hand after we have our own house in order.
For most of us, that is all we can do.
Okay I have a question then. Why is it that you're "watching" others? Do you do the things that you are asking of others? I think that most people want to do the right things but just get caught up in the stuff or crap we have to do every single day. Further sometimes it takes a great deal of money to make the change you speak of. I think some people just loose hope. I don't think they voice that lack of hope, but nonetheless people just don't react because they don't believe that they will truly make a difference. It's sad.
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