Confidence?
Lately, I've been branching out, feeling better about myself than I have for the past few years but there seems to be that one little hum at the end that I can't seem to make it over - Feeling comfortable with myself. I need to be able to be myself at all times, and just forget about being accepted. Can somebody help me with this? Why do some people like myself feel this way?
Answer:
Look, the only person that you need to worry about liking you is you. I mean, you are the only one stuck with you. If someone else doesn't like you, they should be more than welcome not to hang around you. There is no one else who knows better how to be you. There is no one more qualified to determine if you are being true to yourself. There are going to be people who don't like you. There are going to be other people who will think you are wonderful. The only person who has to be happy and impressed and glad to see you is you.
get professional help, from books!!
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one of my advice is try not to take personal what everyone else might thought of you, what they might say,
just take it as a guide, or some sort of collections, they might be right, but they usually are wrong.
remember, being in large crowd doesn't meant you're right. it just mean you are comfortable of being accepted.
it;s easy to try to be accept. but it'll be a lot better to get out from that comfort zone, and sharpen yourself. people will see it one day, and they will start to adore you for being able to be yourself!!
good luck!!
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