Please some1 help me.! :(?
i have a problem that is growing every day which is Homosexuality!! i had this problem since when i was a child but i couldnt understand that and also it wasnt this serious that is now...and i have read somethings about Gay men...i can say that i dont tend to have Sex with a guy but if i see a boy whom i think is good faced,i will suddenly fall in love!! i really dont like to have sex just showering love and be with him and hugs and emotionaly affair... ,can u get that?not sex and also i should tell u that i really like women but this sense to a woman is just about sex while this is different for me about Boys! u got that? i like women for sex and like boys(good looking ones) for love! now,i wanna u to tell me the therapy! is there really a cure for this prob? i really want to speak but i am ashamed of that and i need the therapy Bcoz it is makeing lots of probs for me and is getting worse everyday,i mean this sense not sex ! now,any idea which can help me?!
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I believe you are bisexual to a point. My boyfriend is attracted to men but he hasn't slept with a man yet. He likes our guy friend who is also bisexual. He loves us both so that works out for us. Anyway, if you don't wanna feel anything for the same gender, all you have to do is stop thinking and feeling that way. Build a relationship with a woman and stick to it. See, my boyfriend is curious as to what it'd be like to be with a man just once and he honestly told me about that. I told him he could do what he wants to do with our friend so long as I get to be with both. I think it's only fair! Anyway, once he has had the experience, he said he's gonna let it go and marry me and only be with me. I think you are as curious as my man is but you are fighting it. I think that if you can't forget about your attraction or feelings towards men, then what you might wanna do is experiment and see if that's what you really want. Don't be ashamed. If you wanna talk to me about it, let me know and maybe we can figure it out together. Our friend doesn't wanna be bisexual either but he is curious about being with a man just once too. I think once you get something out of your system one way or another, things get better and you know what you want once you have experimented to figure out who you really are or wanna be. Good Luck!
i heard of that not uncommon.
find both. and both who understand
ok this is creepy
Maybe you should transform yourself into a girl.
You could be "bi" ... you could be gay and fighting it ... either way, there's no "cure" ... you are what you are. Find a good therapist and talk it out.
if by boy you mean underaged...see a professional before you get yourself in trouble. Thats illegal, immoral, and just plain sick.
Ok, well obviously there is an issue. Your mind is just playing tricks on you. Everytime you get a thought which shouldn't be in your mind automatically block them out. Because, all in all, homosexuality goes against nature and you shouldn't want that. Maybe you had never had a relationship with a female I am guessing, but if you haven't try it out. You may find your attitude to change a little. So the best advice not only me, but anyone else could offer you would be to automatically block those thoughts out of your mind, and to continue to pray for this to stop happening, which when you are old enough start some intamacy with people of the opposite gender of yourself. That helps a lot trust me.
maybe you are not gay. haven't you ever been in love with a girl? if not then you are gay. you have to admit it. i think you are just scared of revealing the inner YOU. if there is no problems with falling in love with a guy then you shouldn't have any probs at bed time. do not be afraid of taking the responsibilities of your choice.
Get some help.Seriously.Professional help will set your mind at ease and help you become who you were meant to be. Good luck.
What u need to do is find a church. And ask God to free u from this spirit that is attacking u. Don't let it confuse u. God made a man and a woman not two men or two women. You need to find a Pastor that can pray for u and give u counseling. Good luck. And don't be afraid to ask God to guide u and help u in this situation...He is there even if u don't feel Him.
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Answer:
I believe you are bisexual to a point. My boyfriend is attracted to men but he hasn't slept with a man yet. He likes our guy friend who is also bisexual. He loves us both so that works out for us. Anyway, if you don't wanna feel anything for the same gender, all you have to do is stop thinking and feeling that way. Build a relationship with a woman and stick to it. See, my boyfriend is curious as to what it'd be like to be with a man just once and he honestly told me about that. I told him he could do what he wants to do with our friend so long as I get to be with both. I think it's only fair! Anyway, once he has had the experience, he said he's gonna let it go and marry me and only be with me. I think you are as curious as my man is but you are fighting it. I think that if you can't forget about your attraction or feelings towards men, then what you might wanna do is experiment and see if that's what you really want. Don't be ashamed. If you wanna talk to me about it, let me know and maybe we can figure it out together. Our friend doesn't wanna be bisexual either but he is curious about being with a man just once too. I think once you get something out of your system one way or another, things get better and you know what you want once you have experimented to figure out who you really are or wanna be. Good Luck!
i heard of that not uncommon.
find both. and both who understand
ok this is creepy
Maybe you should transform yourself into a girl.
You could be "bi" ... you could be gay and fighting it ... either way, there's no "cure" ... you are what you are. Find a good therapist and talk it out.
if by boy you mean underaged...see a professional before you get yourself in trouble. Thats illegal, immoral, and just plain sick.
Ok, well obviously there is an issue. Your mind is just playing tricks on you. Everytime you get a thought which shouldn't be in your mind automatically block them out. Because, all in all, homosexuality goes against nature and you shouldn't want that. Maybe you had never had a relationship with a female I am guessing, but if you haven't try it out. You may find your attitude to change a little. So the best advice not only me, but anyone else could offer you would be to automatically block those thoughts out of your mind, and to continue to pray for this to stop happening, which when you are old enough start some intamacy with people of the opposite gender of yourself. That helps a lot trust me.
maybe you are not gay. haven't you ever been in love with a girl? if not then you are gay. you have to admit it. i think you are just scared of revealing the inner YOU. if there is no problems with falling in love with a guy then you shouldn't have any probs at bed time. do not be afraid of taking the responsibilities of your choice.
Get some help.Seriously.Professional help will set your mind at ease and help you become who you were meant to be. Good luck.
What u need to do is find a church. And ask God to free u from this spirit that is attacking u. Don't let it confuse u. God made a man and a woman not two men or two women. You need to find a Pastor that can pray for u and give u counseling. Good luck. And don't be afraid to ask God to guide u and help u in this situation...He is there even if u don't feel Him.
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