Does anyone else feel this way?

I always have this problem when it comes to work. I was raised to always take crap from others and to just be a lady and never say what is on my mind... I almost rather do most of the work in fear of others not liking me. Here lately, i have found that most of my co workers talk about me behind my back, even though I have ALWAYS been so nice to them. Why is it so hard for me to tell them what to do? Why does it make me nervouse to stand up to them?

Answer:
You are who you think you are. So, start thinking that you are a champ, the best!
If you always nice and friendly to other as you claimed. Then, why people have to talk about you behind your back?

Check out the book "Who's Pulling your Strings."

The need to please causes you to be a prime target for manipulation and abuse

Pick the right time and place and take it out on them (only if you're on the right side)

Probably because you opened yourself to them. When you are closed it's easier. Stop being nice to them and just talk to them only when it's necessary.And never smile. With being nice to the you are wasting your good emotions and you should save them only for the people who love you

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