Pathological liar.?
i know he did for a long time have sex with men . he is now with a women . he has lied since he was a teen.
when he was on an anti depressent for a time he was much more happy and did not lie so much or maybe at all.
he is also very up tight his kids both teens early 20"S are not found of being with him as he just goes off and snaps gets very mad furious about little things that dont warrent such a responce.
he has a heart condition and he told me that he cant take the anti depressents anymore because they conflict with his heart meds.
what do you think is the cause of his lies and what can be done about them and his anger.
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There is one thing and one thing only that can cause him to be as he is.. it is called insecurity.. he is living a lie, he puts on a facade.. the only thing that can cause such overwhelming insecurity is the totality of the LIE... HE IS A LIE AND LIVES THE LIE.. Most likely he will die that same way.. He will never admit the truth.. because he would not be able to live within the truth.. He will die a lier..
Maybe he was abused as a young person. That would account for his anger, his depression,. his sexual history, and his mental health issues.
it can be because of his childhood/past or he drinks to much and i know for a fact that he not happy with his life and that is because of karma! he will be punished even more just want to warn not trying to freak u out but tell him to star meditating an relax and calm down and start telling people the truth or he is a gonner.
sorry
If that is tru about his heart I would have a hard time believing him. IT is like a real life boyu who cried wolf syndrome. Maybe he thinks his real life isn't interesting enough and he has to make up stories to get attention, this sort of thing may have started in his childhood.
As for his anger suggest that he take an anger management workshop or seek therapy to resolve any issues or tension he has.
The symptoms you describe sound a lot like bi-polar disorder. What you call lies may be his dillusion. He needs to have his doctor find an anti-depressent that will not interfere with his heart medications. If you feel you must walk away from this relationshionship, do so with out guilt.
He Needs Psychotherapy.To deal with his issues.
this is to the person who left the comment about being abused!! Being depressed or having mental issues does not necessarily mean you have been abused as a young person, get your psychology straight or dont say anything...you sound ignorant!
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