Do you believe that it all leads back to self esteem?
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Absolutely. I have said this very statement for years.
I explain it like this:
A house built on a crooked foundation will not last, will eventually rot and fall and isnt fit for humans to live in.
Its the same for a person that starts life the same way, and that key block to that foundation is self esteem.
Confidence can take years to build and can be broken in an instant..
I agree, people with low self-esttem tend to do what others tell them to do, even when what others say are not right .
I think so, it may be easy for many to blame their misfortunes on others, but ultimately we are responsible for every little thing in our life, if one does not love/believe in themselves that has the potential to create serious disasters.
That is really wise. I agree 100%.
most? not sure about that, but certainly many many of them, yes
very astute
Yes,it is a big issue, if you don't like yourself or not enough or if you feel frustrated concerning something or many things, it is difficult to interact with other people. And most of the time, those other people are the cause of your frustration( they way they laugh at you and take you low, very low)
Low self esteem is certainly a major factor in measuring the potential for success.
However, it is just one of many factors. Many people have low self esteem because they do not have the requisite abilities to compete at a high level.
Unfortunately, a low skill set will most likely induce low self esteem.
That's just one example. So, no, all roads don't lead to Rome. We live in a complex, nuanced society that cannot be categorized or compartmentalized so easily.
I think yes,that has alot to do with things in life..like i've learned you can't love someone til you love yourself,,and with low self-esteem,it's impossible to love yourself...alot of parents bring low self esteem on kids without really realizing it,like showing or verbally chastising a kid when he loses a game,or doesn't quite dance or sing something perfectly. Instead of you did great! They might say why didn't you do it the way you practiced it? You did so well at practice,what happened ? or your head wasn't in that game was it? Those are little things that we do unconciously,or maybe things we've heard from our parents,,,that we don't really think would hurt kids,but it does,,,little by little untill the child' has no self esteem...I use to tell my daughter,GOOD GAME,and my daughter would say but mom we LOST,and I would say yes but you played really well out there,and that's what's important.
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