If someone close to me, like my mom or someone died, from illness, should I commit suicide?
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It is not your responsibility nor your right to "join" them by committing suicide. All you have to do is think of them and they will be beside you in spirit. They watch you and guide you every second that you are here. They do not wish for you to join them any sooner than you are meant to.
You are here to live life to it's fullest; to find joy and enjoyment. You are here to learn and to teach and experience. You are here to interact with as many people as you can while you are here. Your death will happen in it's own time. You do not have to hurry it.
NO! It's not okay, it's a sweet thought, but not okay. The Bible states you will not go to heaven if you take your own life. It's not yours to take. God has a time and place planned for you to join him and you shouldn't try to do so before your time. The person who passed away is waiting for you and when you meet up with them, it will seem like no time has passed at all.
No, it is not ok to commit suicide to be with a loved one who has died. Some religions say that people that commit suicide go to hell. You don't have the right to commit suicide, religiously speaking. Also your loved one would be horrified to know that you would do this. It is much better to honor that person by living a good life and being a good person.
No, that's NOT okay..if everyone commited suicide just to be with the person they loved sooner than they would anyways.their would probably not be anyone left in the world.And if you killed yourself because of this, the people left behind would have the greif of not one, but two losses.
It's never ok to commit suicide not even to join the person/s that have passed on. You are only 19 you have your whole life ahead of you. What would the person think that passed on?
No. You should live out your life and see what God has in store for you. You will join your loved ones when it is time. Your loved ones would not want you to do such a thing anyway. God has a plan for each of us, and He will decide when you are done.
its not that its not ok but its not right. sure u can feel sad for your family member or friend but you'll feel better and you should continue your life as it is. when the time is right, you and your partner will meet up again. think before you act.
NO WAY! Ummmm hello, two wrongs don't make a right. think of your friends. think of all that you'd miss out on! plus u r gonna die someday anyways so no need to force it :) please dont think things like that because thinking about it will make you want to do it. make plans. do fun stuff. dont forget about your loved one that died, but keep the good memories alive,,,,,, well thats all i got
That is called "death ignorer" in psychological terms. Usually someone who kills themself to join another is dubbed this. I think you should weigh your pro's and con's.
mostly pro's, then you are unhappy, you will have to face that, and realize you need someones help to get through this.
More cons, and you are just experiencing the loss of a loved one. the suicide thoughts will go away soon.
NO you need to call a family member or call a suicide hot line to get some help dealing with your pain. Honey when it's your time you will be with them right now you need to stay and finish your job here on earth. They would not want you to bring harm to yourself ever. Think of the good times, think about the stuff in life they want to see you achieve. Sit with a notebook and write to them, sit and talk open your heart they will hear you. There is many steeps dealing with death in time things will get better. Please Ask for help
No, it is not right to commit suicide. You are grieving right now and in time you will feel alright again even though i know that is hard for you to see right now. Go see a grief counselor and tell him/her how you are feeling. The person that died would not want you to do this to yourself. Since you loved them so much they probably always felt the same about you. It would make them very sad that you are in so much pain. See a therapist and get on with your life. You have so much ahead of you that you haven't realized yet. You are 19 go to college and marry someday, have children and a career many people will bring love to you if you give them a chance. Take care of yourself.
I think it would be a terrible thing for your friends and loved ones to bear if you committed suicide. Especially if they had already lost someone else close to them. If you are not upset or unhappy, why would you want to end your life? There is too much to live for. I have lost both of my parents, as well as other family members and some dear friends and have had many sad times to get through. One way I can feel close to someone I have lost is to do something good in remembrance of them. Like donate to a charity and put "In memory of" and their name as the donor, or plant something beautiful and remember them. There are so many positive things you can do to honor their memory. I feel closer to them when I do this than at any other time. I believe they are able to look in on us sometimes, because I can sense their presence. I also have coincidences happen every so often that I think are a way of letting me know that they are still around.
These things give me a sense of comfort and peace, and I can experience them here in this life, rather than having to kill myself to feel close to someone I have lost.
If you are a religious person then you know you won't be "joining" them. Suicide is murder. Death from illness is an unfortunate happenstance in life, not brought about by ones own hand. If you are not unhappy and have enjoyed life so far, it would be complete ignorance on your part to end it all now, rather than ride the wave until the end. Have you actually ever been so depressed or steeped in your own despair to the point where you see no way out but death? If you had, I don't believe you would ask this question in the manner in which you have.
No, it's not okay.
First, there may not be any sort of afterlife. If there isn't, then you killing yourself means that you won't join them.
If there is an afterlife, then your loved one would want you to live your life to its fullest, and join them when it came to a natural end, rather than you artificially ending it out of some misguided desire to be with them.
Additionally, if you do believe in an afterlife, you may also believe in some sort of judgement at that time. Most belief systems will say that suicide is some sort of sin, and you won't go to heaven...so by committing suicide, you'd be insuring that you DON'T join them.
There are probably also other people in your life who would be seriously affected if you killed yourself. It's a very selfish act, and think about it from the point of view of the question you've just asked - if you killed yourself, do you think that your friends or loved ones should do the same so that they could be with you?
My beliefs on life and death are different from most other people but I'll share them with you anyway.
First of all I think of life kind of like a game. In this game there are many pit falls, there are a few rewards, there is a beginning and there are two possible endings. The first ending is a death that is caused by anything other than your own planning or hand and the second ending is suicide. If you end your game the first way, you win. If you end your game the second way you lose. My thinking is that simple and other wise I would have ended my own game many years ago; I'm now 43 years old.
The other thing that I wanted to say about your question is that it is my belief that when your game is over, that is when you die, YOU ARE DEAD! There is no being with anyone other than the worms, the rats and the spiders or in the case of cremation the flames, the ashes and the urn on the mantle.
Unfortunately, death is a part of life. What's worse, is that we don't have much say in how or when we die. That being said, each of us has responsibility to ourselves and to a "higher power" to take full advantage of the short amount of time we have on this earth. I'm sure that your time to join your family/friends will come, whether its tomorrow or decades from now. Until then, take whatever time you need to grieve, and then move forward, treating each day as if it were your last, and eventually it will be. Hopefully it will be later than sooner.
yes. And the person who loves you woud commit suicide to join you and the person who loves the person who loved you would also commit suicide to join you and the person who loves the person who loved the person who loved you would commit suicide too and we'll end up all joining you there because of sth called universal love. ok !
Think carefully, Steven. Is this what you really want? You're going to join whomever you speak of regardless, does it have to be now? What's the rush?
As far as being, ok? Your body, your choice. Knock yourself out.
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