My boyfriend&suicide?
He's the love of my life. We are so so happy together and love each other to bits.
I've been there for him all the time and he has always supported me and always stands by my side.
He's the greatest guy in the world.
But he told me a secret the other day that shocked the shiat out of me. He told me that he tried committing suicide once (during thetime I met him) and that I completely changed his mind and that he'd never ever hurt himself -in otherwords, I save his life and he's so thankful for getting him out of his depression.
What's freakin me out tho' is, he's startin' to say stuff like. 'If you left me now, I'd fall back into my depression',' The only reason why I'm alive is because of you right now, you're the only reason why I'm still here', 'I'd kill myself if you stepped out of my life now'...
I'd never leave him because he's the guy of my dreams.
But he's been sayin that stuff lately, and its scary.
Answer:
wow scary situation. just hope u dont stop loving him. pple like that can turn into stalkers if you break up. just a heads up warning.
Be really straight and firm with him. Tell him that you love him very much but you find his recent talk about suicide and his need for you concerning and its putting your relationship at risk. If he continues with it insist that he gets therapy.
Be pretty funny if he was just saying this stuff to guilt you into staying with you, huh? And I feel I am dignified to give this response, as you never really asked a clear question.
Just check if he really says it seriously, if yes then he really loves you that much.
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