Is this normal in love?
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I have been in a relationship for some time (months); we love each other and have strong emotions. The problem is that I have realized he has a strong physical passion for me as well and he starts telling me implicitly and explicitly what he wants to do with me and says he wants me. on the phone then he asks what I feel..Where is the problem? I never expected him to feel that way and let his passion be so strong, and it's also a cultural matter not to talk about that before marriage...I guess he was roused or so and was trying to do same with me...I feel confused and I wonder if I can blame him or not? Is it normal to have sexual fantasies with someone you love dearly? Thanks
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What culture did you grow up in? In American culture, people get sexy on the phone quite a bit.
My dear, if you don't have sexual desires and fantasies involving the person you love, then who are you going to have them with, strangers? Of course it is normal to have sexual thoughts about the one you love. If you don't.then THAT is a problem my dear.
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Well boys will be boys. But if it concerns you then you should talk to him about it. if its something that you don't feel comfortable with he should know. and if he loves you then he will understand. :)
it all depends on your relationship.....it is normal in some cases .....is it perversion from his side, disrespect, an actual passion in which he has no way to express but being explicit, does he just want to get into you pants and feels safe or despirate, if you dont feel the same way or feel uncomfortable mabee u should say something and gain the respect he obviously isnt giving you. if he was so loving then he should respect you and your beliefs dont let passion be mistaken for actual love...
it is completely normal for people to have sexual fantasies with about the person they love. If his implicit and explicit advances/comments are making you feel uncomfortable, let him know.
Yes! Its very, very, VERY common. Especially in men. Its incredibly common in men. Even if they don't know you their minds become rather perverted towards you if they are attracted to you. Its perfectly normal.
I'm not entirely sure of your age or cultural background but sexual desires are a normal process of being human I think. The only variable is how much a person displays or verbalize the desire. Some due to nurture rather then nature surpasses these desires until the utmost privacy is ensured. While others flaunt, parade and pass off sexual related topics as normal conversations. What I'm trying to say is that, there is no single rule or normal reaction to love and sex. Do what feels normal to you and if you feel uncomfortable you should communicate this to the other 50% of your relationship and see if a compromise and be ironed out.
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