Why do I feel like this? why do i get so angry?
When people find someone attractive that I dont, I get really upset and angry. I dont know why. I feel like people have lost their sense of beauty. For example, I find Penelope Cruz repulsive and I get really angry because she is considered amazing by some others. the same thing with Orlando Bloom, I dont find him attractive and I get annoyed seeing some girls having crushes on him! this happens with the people in my everyday life also. Plus, I tend to dislike and think less of the people who do not share the same opinion as me! But if someone tells me he/she likes Belluchi or Clouney I like them immediately! Why am I being like this? I know that people can have their own taste but still I get really disappointed when I see that people have fallen out of good taste! How do I stop this from bothering me?
Answer:
You are not secure in your opinions and judgements. If you were, it really wouldn't matter what other people think. But their decisions make you doubt yours, or if they agree with you, you love their confirmation. You are also willful and judgemental. You want your way and your perception of things to rule. That's not how the real world works, so you have some work to do on your own maturity.
becuase you think that you are better than other people who do not have the same thoughts as you. no offense but it sounds like you're are acting a little childish and annoyingly stubborn brat.
U THINK THAT EVERY1 SHOULD C WHAT U C. U NEED 2 THINK THAT OTHER PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN OPINIONS. MAYBE U SHOULD GO C A THERAPIST
Its the same as me. I am a model and I see people all the time. I also admire some and hate others.
Just remember some things.
They may be ugly but have characters and identities
You have a right to speak out and its freedom of speech to comment
You do seem a fashionista and some fashion freaks just spill it out.
I am a fashion freak and everytime i see something I go like yuck horrible and thats fine as long as you dont tell them in the face or get a slap back or something.
Relax coz many women do so. Have you seen the movie "The Devil wears Prada"!!
Everyone is different...you shouldnt get upset just because someone does not think like you .Just like you may think you yourself are pretty but the next guy make think you are repulsive. Why do you want people to think like you anyway? I like being an individual with my thoughts. any other time i would just say be happy that no one has the same taste in guys as you becasue the guys you tbink look good you can just have for yourself but after reading your question again, i think your just a little nutty...I can see you disagreeing but getting upset. Did ever stop to think that maybe your the one falling out of good taste? I mean Orlando BLOOM and Belushi? NO COMPARISON NEEDED HERE. Who made you the God and Judge of Good Looks.
hmmmm
you have to respect other people's choice of taste,some may find your taste on beauty is repulsive too.
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You are not secure in your opinions and judgements. If you were, it really wouldn't matter what other people think. But their decisions make you doubt yours, or if they agree with you, you love their confirmation. You are also willful and judgemental. You want your way and your perception of things to rule. That's not how the real world works, so you have some work to do on your own maturity.
becuase you think that you are better than other people who do not have the same thoughts as you. no offense but it sounds like you're are acting a little childish and annoyingly stubborn brat.
U THINK THAT EVERY1 SHOULD C WHAT U C. U NEED 2 THINK THAT OTHER PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN OPINIONS. MAYBE U SHOULD GO C A THERAPIST
Its the same as me. I am a model and I see people all the time. I also admire some and hate others.
Just remember some things.
They may be ugly but have characters and identities
You have a right to speak out and its freedom of speech to comment
You do seem a fashionista and some fashion freaks just spill it out.
I am a fashion freak and everytime i see something I go like yuck horrible and thats fine as long as you dont tell them in the face or get a slap back or something.
Relax coz many women do so. Have you seen the movie "The Devil wears Prada"!!
Everyone is different...you shouldnt get upset just because someone does not think like you .Just like you may think you yourself are pretty but the next guy make think you are repulsive. Why do you want people to think like you anyway? I like being an individual with my thoughts. any other time i would just say be happy that no one has the same taste in guys as you becasue the guys you tbink look good you can just have for yourself but after reading your question again, i think your just a little nutty...I can see you disagreeing but getting upset. Did ever stop to think that maybe your the one falling out of good taste? I mean Orlando BLOOM and Belushi? NO COMPARISON NEEDED HERE. Who made you the God and Judge of Good Looks.
hmmmm
you have to respect other people's choice of taste,some may find your taste on beauty is repulsive too.
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