What factors do you consider to give the ex another chance?
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How much time have I invested. Did the ex respect any of the time invested. Did they just treat me as a 'fly by night" Or is there real grounds to continue this. Do they continually hurt me by their behavior. Am I just out to save them? Do I think I can change them?
Ask yourself the previous questions.
how badly i want to bed him. true. sad, but true
what was the cause of the break up
how mush time passed
if he's really changed
how well he begs LOL
why he cheated/messed up ect..if he did
Are they good with the tongue!
if they try to do better than last time and not lying to you at all.
NONE, seriously it's just another endless cycle I hate stress and breaking up for sure is a huge stresser! I finally did it and I'm doen if it didn't work the first time its not gonna again, But I was the dumper. At this time I can only imagien how it feels for the dumpee
Sincerity. What ever the reason was for them to become an "X" dose that still exist? If it dose then no chance should be given. One other thing is love. Do you love this person enough, Do they merit another chance? Be true to yourself, if giving them another chance means giving up who you are or even part of who you are then, no. But, if you see they are trying to be truthful and honest then let your heart lead you.
OK, honestly I dont give an ex any other chance. it doesnt matter what they did that was good, all that matters is what they did that was bad. I am kind of big on punishing people and if that means I break my own heart to break his, then it is on! But maybe you ought not take this advice to heart, especially if you love your ex and want to work things out.
Have all of the issues that you led to where you are both at now being resolved.
Can you both now look forward to spending quality time together?
Are you doing this for the right reason?
Do you both have a support system if something goes wrong so that you can talk it through
Have you both agreed to be sincerely in a relationship together
If the answer to these question is yes then you have a great chance
commitment and sincerity
how much of me am I willing to sacrifice in order to have this person back in my life.
similar to the message in the saying ' dont do the crime if youre not willing to do the time.'
stuff doesnt allways work out the way its thought up to.
The factor that broke you up.
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