Why do I just not care?
I'm asking a lot of questions like this, but I'm having a breakdown right now and I can't stand it...
Answer:
calm down dude.. what exactly your problem is? ask yourself, what you really want, follow your heart and live it..
alright .. its as simple as this .. UR A TEENAGER!! have'nt u heard all the fking stories about the confused hormoneas and all that **** .. trust me most ov ur friendz feel this way too .. i saw ur other questng about how u cant find urself or sumthin ... i totally can relate to that .. its like i have a diffrent personality everytime im around someone.. just so i can win them over and get them to like me or whatever !! but now i realised that seriously.. their not worth it~~ !! Im just gonna be miself and if they like it great! if not then screw them!! lyfz short and im not getting any younger!!! try to get buzii ! join clubs with ppl who have thingz in common with u .. hang around people who u feel comfortable with !!not ppl who judge u ..
and well thatz about it .. hope it helpz
I'd suggest you rest well, then think. Ask yourself why. For one thing, you really dont have to be in the so called "in" crowd. =/
Now that you're thinking about it you just saw the fakeness, did you not? After you think about and take some time thinking about things then surely you'll find an answer. =)
Good luck dude~!
You do it because you can. It's too easy for you. Spend more time doing things away from the things you already know. Go out on adventures (without your friends). See how you can help a total stranger for one breif moment and see how that makes you fell inside.
I once found a wasp, in my friends cottage it landed on me, At first I wanted to jump and run but something told me there's something not right here. I picked it up out of my hair and reolized it was dieing. I carfully brought it outside to the patio and instinct took over, I brought it suagr water and picked flowers and watched it lap it up. within 20 minutes it started to eat ferosusly getting stronger by the second, it started to flap it's wings and flew off. I can't tell you how this silent moment between me and this wasp changed my life.
Your lucky you still have people to use and abuse.Once all your bridges are burned, come see me about the cost of loneliness.
Hi there
Firstly it is very good that you have identified your problem. It tells me that you are really a good person as a bad person would carry out such acts without even giving it a second thought. You have expressed that when you set your sights on things that benifit you , you hurt people to obtain these benifits. A word of advice here.. perhaps you should be honest with people that can help you obtain these benifits and rather than use them or hurt them just ask for there help and make them feel part of having helped you and you will find their support will not only give you the result you want but they will also fell good that they have helped. As far as your current relationship, we as humans always like to feel popular and important, and perhaps i feel that you may have poor self esteem that makes you believe that you have sneaked your way into this social setting that you somehow feel is above you rather than understanding that this supposed in crowd is in reality just a group of people you admire and because of your possible low self esteem see yourself below them rather than understanding you are a cherished part of your group. You should start placing yourself on the same level of your current friends and simply enjoy the good times to be had. You are not blinded by fakeness just confused and see youself below your current friends. Understand your friends want you there otherwise you wouldn't be there and start having some fun. Good luck
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