Sexual assualt in sleep, leading to suicide??

If u r being sexually assualted like fondling with genitals or oral sex while u r asleep from trusted family members & u have to sleep in the same place everytime, I want to ask u here (AND NOTHING ELSE), how to fall asleep without loosing concisiousness or at least a light sleep, so that u could wake up very instantly or just before they come near u, even before they could do any wrong with u? Specially when u r a boy (late teen) & u r getting disbelieved everywhere only because the abusers r extremely trusted female family members who r incredibly voilent as well ! Serious reply only. U may be interested in my other open question too. Please at least get a look at it.

Answer:
Sounds like a difficult situation. I know these are various ways to fall into a light sleep but all methods I know of are likely not practical to you (eg. sensory deprivation via ambient sounds). You would likely have to invest into a hidden video recorder that can run during the times this is possible to happen.
Other than that I would say the best way is to confront them, as painful and non-viable as it may be.
Personally, unless they were a powerful authority figures, I would deal with this by overwhelming aggression and intimidation targeted only at the individual assaulting you. In this sense I would provoke a response and be able to confront them about this. In a suicidal state this may not be your choice, but either way I would suggest extremeist confrontation as an alternative to proof.
Good luck.
Just wet the bed. That should deter them.
wow call the police wat the **** is gng on wit u
try drinking alot of water before bed. that way you'll be asleep, but still have that urge to go pee. since your not completely alseep, you will feel more things around you
oh dear, i think you should call the police, i don't know but please stop this, women can not take advantage just because they are trusted by family, try and find a way for one member of the family to keep on watch so then when they abuser comes round to you, she will get caught, get a trusted friend to sleep with you.
Get a recording of it. You need to be absolutly sure. The mind can play tricks. And this is why they may not want to believe it.
Sorry, I know you said nothing else, I can't sleep either...
Can you put a lock on the door? Music might help. a light on?
window wide open? Keep your cloths on when you go to bed. Belt and all. Get a puppy they'll keep an eye on you.
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i think you need to set up a camera or a recorder of some sort and set it up somewhere hidden. that way if anything happens it will be caught on camera or at least voices will be heard. also, you should go to the police and tell them they are required to look into it, just because you are a boy and mid teen doesnt mean that you cant be being assualted. you may also want to get help because if this has been going on for a while it can seriously hurt you emotionally. i wish you the best of luck and hope you can get the confidence to tell the police, it may be hard but its worth it.

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