How do you realize when a child is being sexually absused?
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they usually begin regressing.wetting the bed..not wanting to undress when its time to bathe..they may start touching their stuffed animals or dolls in private parts.those are some to watch for...
Sudden change in behavior- This can include very extreme mood swings, and excessive crying.
Withdrawal- A once outgoing child could suddenly act withdrawn, and in some cases even be afraid to interact with others.
Sudden Bed Wetting- A child who never wet the bed may begin having frequent accidents.
Bad dreams and difficulty sleeping- You may notice that your child suddenly begins to have a lot of nightmares and have a very hard time trying to get to sleep.
Bruises or other unexplained injuries- If you notice any sign of injury on your child then you should investigate immediately without hesitation.They may also experience pain or irritation in their private areas.If you begin to notice this type of behavior in your child you should try to speak to your child about the possible cause.Make it very clear to them that they have done nothing wrong, and they will not get into any trouble for talking to you about it.It is also possible that the above list may be indications that your child has some type of medical problem or there may be another issue that is troubling them, so don’t automatically assume that they are being molested.It is also possible for a child who is being molested to show no signs or symptoms.If you feel that something is wrong don’t be afraid to speak with teachers, parents, and anyone who has contact with your children.If your child admits that someone has been molesting them or touching them in a inappropriate way then you should contact your local authorities immediately, as well as your child’s doctor to have them medically examined
the most important thing though---is to MAKE SURE---that they know they did not do any thing wrong and that they are not going to get in trouble and that you won't get upset---most pervos who molest kids usually say oh your mom won't believe you---or you're going to get in trouble---or it'll be our secret----i've got 3 kids and my oldest is on his way to Kindergarden and I always tell him that it IS NOT OKAY for ANYONE to touch him in his privates and that if someone does to tell right away. He understands perfectly, and he knows what to do. Good luck!
Each child is different, and the signs vary with the age of the child. Watch for emotional changes, changes in toilet habits, changes in appetite, "boundary" issues (not wanting to be touched OR being too clingy).
If you are asking because you believe that a child IS being abused, get him/her help. There's no tried and true way to tell "for sure," and you may be this child's only help.
My daughter has been abused and she wouldn't undress for her bath and cried like crazy. She also started wetting the bed again and having nightmares. She wouldn't go outside even just for a minute by herself and didn't want to stay at school without me.
children , above all else are the most honest people ,on this planet , period ,
if your question meant, how do you find out if there some thing going on , you need to get on there level,
most kids love to draw pictures, get the kid to draw you a picture,of they people they love , and ask gently is there any one you don't love ,and why? ask for a hug , most kids,wont give you one , they tend to be introverted, but
if they male, i bet i can guess,fro m the psychical signs .pain etc,and they tend to very, quiet most of the time
For boys...it's most common for them to either because aggressive or passive. Some boys start to behave inappropriately. I'm not sure what are the exact symptoms...I guess you should refer to the other answers.
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